Booby Award Tonight ( Maria call it)

Guess the heading of this posting says it all.After Sunday and the major fight with my boyfriend about picking his friend over me.Them the loss in sex and all the lousy exuses that pour or is that fell out of his mouth.:mad: Them out of the blue and yes i mean blue,he was All touchy feeling which he has not done in a long while.....:confused: Something was not right.SO like any other woman out there . Went with my gut instanice and went to the dept. store where he works...Cuss i thought the answer lies in there.Low and behold Got it he was walking down alie and talking about how he walk over to see if the woman was thier. and he was talking so much about how hot she was he didn't even see me standing there.well low and behold when he saw mw you thought he was a dear in light and when we got to the parking lot hewas determined to denaid everything. and i told him forget your BUSTED!!!! and he said it was over and walk away.:eek: I feeling the the bigesst in assss right now, to add to this only two days ago i ask him it he want his freedom to just be honest with me.Now fianlly everything has start to fall in place from the atuitde to the friend 1.thanks to you all for letting me exhale...........

Debbie, I'm so sorry to hear about your pain. :( You need to focus on you now... do something nice for yourself today, and call up someone you trust to talk to. Eat your favourite food and just relax. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

Debbie, be loyall to yourself. If he still comes back, remember what I told you: it's your call, you tell him exactly what you want and what you need, you are no doormat.

I hate his attitude, I wouldn't be able to be with a guy who makes comments like that and then says it's over when you feel hurt.

A lot has been going on, first he leaves you alone in a parking lot and now this, have some pride, girl. You deserve so much better. :(

How are you feeling today, Debbie?

After reading all the replys has really help.:D Im glad came here to see if it was just me, and that Im not as he said it seeing and hearing things....Matter of fact forgot to tell mention the cell phone.He had a # in there with only a first letter. And the rest of the #'s had thier full name aside them/He told oh its just a friend......But I didn't say a word just said what ever!!! But think with are last talk he just LOOK at me. And he knew I was seroius.also told him maybe this is what you need a few good kicks to the crubs.Them your going to relize you had a good thing.4 years is a lot to lose.

Sad part is I know the love is there,,,,But if you dont have trust or respect for each other it mean nothing....Told him guess in many way you were trying to tell me.He said no But im a person who belive that action speak louder them words.....

if he ever came back it would be on my terms...he just look at me.I know it going to be hard but Got to stay strong....And know the tears will flow.:( will keep coming back here to read and maybe help who else might need it.:)