Lernerlane
06-18-2004, 03:25 AM
Hi everyone. I'm a neophyte here at Ageless Love. I came across the site a few days ago and I was quickly drawn in. And now here I am writing a personal ad...
First, I'll introduce myself... To begin with, I'm a very mature 20-year-old college student in IL. As for my personality, I'm rather laid back and individualistic. More introverted than extroverted. My friends describe me as dependable, empathetic, dedicated, loyal, quiet, serious, scholarly. A person who is appreciative of what other people have to give... I love writing and the Arts. I'm especially fond of theater. Tennessee Williams, anyone? Alan Jay Lerner? In general, I'm a humanities kind of guy. I'm also hoping to be a writer (playwright, screenwriter, novelist), actor, director, teacher. In fact, I'm currently studying to be a middle/high school teacher... My sense of humor tends towards witty. My taste in music tends towards Classical and Broadway. In fact, my taste in entertainment in general is in the "oldie" category... As you can see, I have a traditional kind of mindset.
I guess that is the main reason I prefer older women to younger ones. I have always found myself to have a lot more in common with the former. Young girls and I have too many communication problems. I'm just not attracted to a Christina Aguilera or a Brittany Spears. I want someone who is wiser and deeper and more complicated than that. To me, the goal of love is not to have "fun" (love isn't a board game). I want to love someone in order to be a part of another human being. It's a serious venture that demands dedication and courage.
In fact, I've been told my relationship ideas are more 'feminine' than 'masculine.' Tests that psychologically determine people's sex even claim I am 'female' rather than 'male.' I guess I believe that to be true in many areas. I certainly recall once hearing that men date for sex and women date for marriage. Well, the latter certainly applies more to me than the former. Commitment is indeed of high importance for me. I'm looking for something permanent and lasting and meaningful. I could never take part in a fling that is over before it's flung. That just seems like a colossal waste of time. In contrast, I'm not afraid of the 'm' word at all. Au contraire, I love it, I love it, I love it. I can't wait to get married. It's #1 on the to-do list. To me, a wedding ring is like a new ferrari. It's something to brag to your neighbors about. Unfortunately, it often seems I'm in a minority on that issue...
Anyway, so that is my little rant for the evening. The purpose of it was to spill my heart out in the hope that some lovely lady out there would be interested in learning more. I would love to hear from anyone who would care to write me. Geographic proximity wouldn't hurt (I'm in Evanston, IL). However, it wouldn't necessarily hinder either. After all, an extra e-mail is just an extra friend.
But generally what I'm looking for is what I mentioned above: a wonderful older women interested in a longterm relationship with an empathetic younger male.
By-the-by, my e-mail address is: lerneresque@msn.com. Please feel free to contact me if I've tickled your interest.
Take care, all :-)
First, I'll introduce myself... To begin with, I'm a very mature 20-year-old college student in IL. As for my personality, I'm rather laid back and individualistic. More introverted than extroverted. My friends describe me as dependable, empathetic, dedicated, loyal, quiet, serious, scholarly. A person who is appreciative of what other people have to give... I love writing and the Arts. I'm especially fond of theater. Tennessee Williams, anyone? Alan Jay Lerner? In general, I'm a humanities kind of guy. I'm also hoping to be a writer (playwright, screenwriter, novelist), actor, director, teacher. In fact, I'm currently studying to be a middle/high school teacher... My sense of humor tends towards witty. My taste in music tends towards Classical and Broadway. In fact, my taste in entertainment in general is in the "oldie" category... As you can see, I have a traditional kind of mindset.
I guess that is the main reason I prefer older women to younger ones. I have always found myself to have a lot more in common with the former. Young girls and I have too many communication problems. I'm just not attracted to a Christina Aguilera or a Brittany Spears. I want someone who is wiser and deeper and more complicated than that. To me, the goal of love is not to have "fun" (love isn't a board game). I want to love someone in order to be a part of another human being. It's a serious venture that demands dedication and courage.
In fact, I've been told my relationship ideas are more 'feminine' than 'masculine.' Tests that psychologically determine people's sex even claim I am 'female' rather than 'male.' I guess I believe that to be true in many areas. I certainly recall once hearing that men date for sex and women date for marriage. Well, the latter certainly applies more to me than the former. Commitment is indeed of high importance for me. I'm looking for something permanent and lasting and meaningful. I could never take part in a fling that is over before it's flung. That just seems like a colossal waste of time. In contrast, I'm not afraid of the 'm' word at all. Au contraire, I love it, I love it, I love it. I can't wait to get married. It's #1 on the to-do list. To me, a wedding ring is like a new ferrari. It's something to brag to your neighbors about. Unfortunately, it often seems I'm in a minority on that issue...
Anyway, so that is my little rant for the evening. The purpose of it was to spill my heart out in the hope that some lovely lady out there would be interested in learning more. I would love to hear from anyone who would care to write me. Geographic proximity wouldn't hurt (I'm in Evanston, IL). However, it wouldn't necessarily hinder either. After all, an extra e-mail is just an extra friend.
But generally what I'm looking for is what I mentioned above: a wonderful older women interested in a longterm relationship with an empathetic younger male.
By-the-by, my e-mail address is: lerneresque@msn.com. Please feel free to contact me if I've tickled your interest.
Take care, all :-)