JohnsGurl8465
08-17-2004, 04:34 PM
Hi guys,
I was poking around the internet one day and came across this website. I have seen the support you guys have for one another and I just thought I would join you guys.
I am currently in a relationship with a man that is 19 years older than me. We have known each other for 4 years and been together for 2 years. I am about to being my third year of college. I noticed that people are alot more accepting. All my friends know about my SO, but some of my friends in high school would be abit concern about my being with him. I just thought I would like to get to know you guys better and hear some of your success stories.
foolforlove
08-17-2004, 04:46 PM
Hi and welcome to ageless. I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my older man, he's 14 years older than I am. This place is fantastic for getting support. I look forward to getting to know you better around here. :D
JohnsGurl8465
08-17-2004, 04:48 PM
I used to be in a long distance relationship.
He lived in Oregon and I used to live in ny, it was like that for two years, but we are finally together
foolforlove
08-17-2004, 04:52 PM
That's great news, Paul is in Australia and I'm in England but we're both looking forward to the time we can say the distance is gone for good. Seeing story's like yours keep me going. Thank you :D
JohnsGurl8465
08-17-2004, 04:56 PM
the trick I did was:
lots of lovey dovey cards, emails and phone calls.
my cell phone bill went through the roof but it was all worth it at the end :)
foolforlove
08-17-2004, 05:28 PM
oh yes, my phone bills I don't even want to think about LOL. We send each other little packages occasionally too, in fact I posted one off yesterday :D I know our love is worth it though and we will be together in the end :D
JohnsGurl8465
08-17-2004, 06:15 PM
How long have you guys known each other?
do you meet each other once in between the long waits?
foolforlove
08-17-2004, 06:33 PM
We've known each other for a little over 3 years but have only managed to spend time together twice so far, the first time when he came over to England for a month and then last time when I went over to stay with him for a month in May. I'm booked to go back over there at the end of March next year for another month but with my 2 children this time which at the moment seems ages away but I know we'll get through it all. It's just hard getting together more because of the distance involved and of course the cost of flights, and my childs education etc.
MerAlove23
08-18-2004, 06:53 PM
Welcome JohnsGurl!!!!!!
YOu sound like your in a very successful relationship yourself.... Check out our Chit chat section we have tons of fun there.. I hope you like SHOES.. LOL....
My husband is 17 years older than me.. together almost 3 years married one year August 30th.. yippe my anniversary is coming....I am 29 and he is 46.... we just had a beautiful baby boy who is 6 weeks old thursday... :) and VEry happily married....
Tell us more mroe more ... :)
I look forward to getting to know you:)
Mer
EMCAD80
08-18-2004, 07:50 PM
I've been fortunate enough to get to know Johnsgurl a bit through PM....and she seems to be one lovely person.
A formal welcome and hello :)
Hope to read more about you and your sweety :)