How much is the bigest age gap in this website?

when i read newspaper yesterday, I found a news that a 26 yo man would marriaged to a 68 yo woman ,This is the bigest age gap i have known , and how much is the bigest age gap in this website?

I'm 32, he's 19

that's 13 years, right?

not enough tea, yet

workin on it



and i think the poster is referring to numerically Nessa, not an emotional interpretation of the largest. just my opinion, could be wrong.

off to drink more tea

I guess noone here will top the age-difference you found in the newspaper..... and this number is nothing that the members of this forum use to show off... its not important to a relationship.

The largest gap of which I am aware here is about a 33 yr gap. But, there could many some that are larger, but they just don't post much.

Mine with my fiance is 18 years. The average here seems to be 16-17 years.

i agree that it's JUST numbers, but....

isn't that what got me here?
maybe what got MOST here.
because in the beginning , like it or not, we thought about and maybe even ocd'ed about the numbers.
and for someone who's maybe having some issues with the numbers.....knowing what ours are and that we are SOOOO ok with it, knowing those actual figures might help.
to us NOW it's just numbers.

but about oh, say 6 months ago? the NUMBERS were freakin me out.

but i'm feeling much better now.
took 2 ageless forums and called Lewis the next morning.
fixed me right up.
:D

I *thought* I was in an age gap relationship until I came here....my gap is 4.5 years.....:eek:

Me too Teena, my age gap is 9 years.

30 years
he is 27, I am 30 years older. :confused: :D

My y/m is 32 and I am 63, so thats pretty big as far as age gaps go I guess. But as others have said, its just a number, and the funny thing is that my y/m and I are so much alike and in tune with each other in almost every area I dont even notice an age gap, other than looking in the mirror of course LOL , yet my ex and I were the same age physically, but miles apart in our likes or dislikes, our beliefs , etc. We had no communication because it was always his way or an argument. We never laughed or had fun or talked about anything we could agree on.
The only down thing I can say about my "age gap"relationship, is that at my age, I dont have as many years as I wish I had, to spend with my y/m. BUT on the good side, Im having the time of my life now and if I only have 3-5-10 years, Ill say, "Thank you GOD for saving the best till the last" :D

The only down thing I can say about my "age gap"relationship, is that at my age, I dont have as many years as I wish I had, to spend with my y/m. BUT on the good side, Im having the time of my life now and if I only have 3-5-10 years, Ill say, "Thank you GOD for saving the best till the last"

I have to admit I am a little emotional today but Charo.... that was a beautiful thing to say....brought tears to my eyes.
Best wishes to you and your guy.

Muse and her bf. Muse is in her 20's and her bf is 70? She even makes jokes about it, lol.

I'm 51 and Phil is 19, so depending on the time of year we are 33 years apart. Like Charo said, we don't notice the gap at all.

Charo, I'm with 1love. What you said about your bf is so sweet. I understand how you feel.

my girlfriend and I are 36 years apart. I'm 28 and she's 64.

Age really doesn't have much to play in a relationship other than how long you've been around and what you might have been through during your time because of it. That's what I take from age. Other than that, I feel that interests, values, and love is what brings many people together.

My large reason coming to this website is to find other people with similar age gap relationships. The issues discussed here help a lot through the reading, yet I don't normally respond to them. Sometimes it's hard to open up on the Internet, you know.

Many people I run across have comments about age (numbers). Just look at them and say "what age? I didn't even notice" hehe.

I'm 35 and my YM is 19 (a gap of 15 years and 8 months), so I guess we're about average on this forum. Sometimes I feel like he's the older of this duo, though -- he's constantly surprising me with how stable and mature he is. Certainly more than I was at his age, and definitely more than my ex-husband who is several years older than him.

Age really is just a number that doesn't reflect personality, maturity, integrity, or inner beauty.

It just typically takes awhile for people to realize that. :rolleyes:

There's no gap between us, age-related or whatever!

Our ages?

Well, I was born 24 years ago.

My sweethearts's age? Well, I don't know and it doesn't matter to me. I never asked her - I was taught women should never be asked this question :) - and this has never been a topic in our conversations.

Sometimes friends really wonder how come I don't know yet. And I wonder how many more years may pass before I finally find out - or not :)

~applaudss Yavor~ What a sweet answer!! :)

Next month my OW will be 14 years difference but like many in here age doesn't matter if two of you get along and have fun!. I have only been with her for a short time after my Siberian lady sent me a dear john email (that's a different story). My current lady will be 65 and for the both of us has been the best sex to date...something about OW than turns me on more.

But I did see in one of those personal.com dating services a OW (64) looking for 18-25 year old men..wonder if she ever succeded?!?

thanks Ilove and bubbleee

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I think I have one of the largesr OW/YM relationships here, 27 years between us. He absolutely NEVER mentions or thinks about me being older. Honestly NEVER. I really dont think he considers it unusual.

There was 34 years between us. We had 2 1/2 years in a LDR then when we met, I was too old. At least I think that was the problem, he never actually said. Except he refused to give me a kiss even because he doesn't kiss friends.

I am 53, he is 24. Sounds like a lot and it worried me a lot in the begining but I rarely notice/think about it anymore. Everyday with him is a gift.

28 years here, I'm 49, he's 21. Been together, umm, like over 3 1/2 years.
And its all good.

Bella, you and your YM are about the same age dif as we are. You must be happy if you have been together for over 3 years. People who never had an age gap relationship cant understand what any of us have in common with our younget partners. But being with my YM is as natural as breathing. Everyone here knows what Im talking about.

Originally posted by Canche
Bella, you and your YM are about the same age dif as we are. You must be happy if you have been together for over 3 years. People who never had an age gap relationship cant understand what any of us have in common with our younget partners. But being with my YM is as natural as breathing. Everyone here knows what Im talking about.


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Exactly, Canche

Canache,

You said it perfectly!

Today Phil and I were talking and we never, ever notice an age gap and we're 33 years apart! We do notice a culture gap though because I'm a city girl and he's a country boy. Isn't that funny?

Yes, sometimes our differences is what we love about eachother

We are happy. And our ages are just a little part of who we are.
It is nearly 4 years now that we met, and in December, will be 4 years that we met in person. He moved here in May of 2001.
We're too busy working and living to pay any attention to the age gap.
And like I've always said, even if we don't wind up lasting forever, I've had more love this last 3 1/2 years than I'd ever dreamed of having in my whole life, so its so worth it.
I always thought this type of loving was a myth, that only happened in romance novels. Well waddaya know!
The only time we notice age is when I say something like, I have Teen Spirit running through my brain, and he says, what's that? and I say, y'know, Nirvana, and he says, what's that? And I realize he's too damn young to remember Nirvana!
But he loves the music from my time, its mostly just the eighties he seems to have missed....