when relationships end....

When a woman says its over, there is no way to basically convince her otherwise. Anything to the contrary, you are waisting your time friend. In her mind, if its over you are as good as disappeared.

Relationships provides a man with out having to go out into the dating game again, a security, a semblence of a place already set up for him ; a peace. In order to find that semblence again he'd have to go thru the black of uncertainity again.

The weakness of man is when he develops feelings for a woman , that is where you can strike him where he usually would never let him be striken there. A woman doesnt get attached like a guy, its more shallow , more light hearted, here now gone tomorrow type of feelings. Because feelings are nothing more than dinner chatter to them, a parody , a time - pass.

agreed ?

Originally posted by bavarain
a woman doesnt get attached like a guy, its more shallow , more light hearted, here now gone tomorrow type of feelins. Because feelins are nothing more than dinner chatter to them, a parody , a time - pass.

Say WHATWHATWHAT? Are you reponding to someone, bavarain? I really can't help, though, to think this was an absurdly generalized statement.

Feelings are nothing more than dinner chatter to a 'woman?' What the heck kinda comment was THAT? Sexist and ignorant! Foolish and absurd!

I've known a variety of men who I could say the same thing about, but I don't say "ALL" men are like that. A lot of men are very caring and deep. Compassionate and empathic. So are a lot of women.

Dinner chatter... a passtime! If you were my friend sitting next to me and uttered such nonsense, I would have backhanded you upside the head and told you how idiotic a statement like that really is...

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Originally posted by bavarain
When a woman says its over, there is no way to basically convince her otherwise. Anything to the contrary, you are waisting your time friend. in her mind,if its over you are as good as disappeared.

relship provides a man with out having to go out into the dating again, a security, a semblence of a place already set up for him ; a peace. in order to find that semblence again he'd have thru the black of uncertainity again.

the weakness of man is when he develops feelings for a woman , that is where you can strike him where he usually would never let him be striken there. a woman doesnt get attached like a guy, its more shallow , more light hearted, here now gone tomorrow type of feelins. Because feelins are nothing more than dinner chatter to them, a parody , a time - pass.

agreed ?

I'm guessing you are a man? The day you have a period, sprout breasts and have a baby or two or three, let me know. It is VERY dangerous to speak in generalities as you have done here, and to say that you know the mind and heart of a woman, when you are not her. That is not to know a woman at all.. Many of the things written here can be said for men as well, if you'd really like to turn the tables. I've met a few a*holes lately, should I lump all of your sex in the same category? Would you like that? Hmmm...

Are you seeking advice here, or support? Or are you merely tossing out ideas in order to stir up something?

Originally posted by bavarain
a woman doesnt get attached like a guy, its more shallow , more light hearted, here now gone tomorrow type of feelins. Because feelins are nothing more than dinner chatter to them, a parody , a time - pass.

agreed ?

Oh boy, bavarain, be prepared for a firestorm of responses here. I am also confused as to whether you are posting this as a new thread or if it was supposed to be a reply to another already existing thread.

But, oh boy, this statement that you've made cannot be further from the truth. If you seriously believe this, then you have much to learn about women. Or, maybe you're meeting the wrong kind of women.

hmmm...I suspect a troll, gang. :(

This guy is the same that posted pics of himself in another thread in an orgy of self-love and seems to like making one-liner comments in the few other threads he has posted on.

These comments are ridiculous considering he is pointing them at a largely female group and any idiot would know that. I can't believe that he is just that niave.

He's either a troll or a misogynist!

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This is a new thread.

Originally posted by bavarain
When a woman says its over, there is no way to basically convince her otherwise. Anything to the contrary, you are waisting your time friend. in her mind,if its over you are as good as disappeared.

relship provides a man with out having to go out into the dating game again, a security, a semblence of a place already set up for him ; a peace. in order to find that semblence again he'd have to go thru the black of uncertainity again.

the weakness of man is when he develops feelings for a woman , that is where you can strike him where he usually would never let him be striken there. a woman doesnt get attached like a guy, its more shallow , more light hearted, here now gone tomorrow type of feelins. Because feelins are nothing more than dinner chatter to them, a parody , a time - pass.

agreed ?


HUH? :confused: HUH? :confused: HUH? :confused:

This deserves popcorn.

Originally posted by bavarain
This is a new thread.

That's all you have to say? Yep. Troll. Attention seeker. I'm outta here. Have fun. :rolleyes:

hahahahaha!

Buh - bye!

Na Na Na Na, Na Na Na Na, Hey, Hey, Hey, GOOD-BYE. . .

Kimmy, you are just the sweetest thang. :)

I hope he deserves and appreciates your lovely reply!

Bavarain is the only one who can explain whether he was seriously wanting to discuss this issue, but one thing to keep in mind is that he did mention on another thread that he is from another culture. So, if that's the case, he may bring a different experience to the discussion.

So, let's wait and give him a chance to explain himself further. Tell us more Bavarain about your own experience and why you feel this way?

Bavarian, my first gut reaction was that you were just dumped and you are a mess and needed to post. Then the others popped in and mentioned some other...potential issues. I hope that the generalizations that you made were really a direct comment on your feelings about a break up that you are dealing with, and not some odd, unreal and surreal comments/Troll junk. If it's pain and loss, clarify, perhaps some of us can help a bit.

K.

Basically, I could take what he said and make it apply towards men, judging from most of the guys I have been "lucky" enough to meet. I lost track of how many met me once, and when there wasn’t a chance for easy sex, I never heard from them again. Let alone, the ones that are out trolling online. It still amazes me how people can so easily forget that there is an actual person with feelings on the other end of the IM.

But even after all this, I would never be so presumptuous to think it applied to every guy. I have taken the approach that I'm just one closer to finding the right one for me.

Bavarain, women are people too. We come in many different varieties. We have feelings and thoughts.

You make it sound as though we are heartless automatons.

Either you were just dumped, hate women, or... if you really believe that we are a) all the same and b) horrible... well, that's unfortunate for you.

Flamebait.

*thinks she's smells mod-police riding up*

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