Yeppers! I need some advice

I am a bundle of something, maybe emotions! I guess I should fill you in on my story.

My ym and I do not have the traditional dating relationship. We have been close for a few months and finally went out on an "official" date just 2 weeks ago, which ended with a nice kiss goodnight.

We work at the same company but have different shifts. He puts in an average of 90 hours a week, as shop foreman, and I work 60 hours each week, as the night dispatcher. It makes it hard to see one another.

Since our date, he has called me every night. Several times he has been here early in the morning hours to talk. We kiss hello and good-bye. We aren't "making out" at work, just a little kissing, now and then. (I am the only person here at night).

Because of our work schedules we can not seem to get together for another date. Well, we can but it will be 3 or 4 more weeks unless, I want to go with him this weekend and stay in a room out of town, until he is done working.

Is it too early to go on this weekend trip? In a way I do not think it is, since we have been talking for a few months. But, in a way I think it could be since we have only gotten to go out once in all this time.

If I don't go it could be another 3 years before I ever get laid!! LOL!! Not that sex is the only reason I would be going, but it is definitely something I would like.

Bah, suddenly I can not think clearly! Any advice would be appreciated.

I don't think I see any problem with this, at least so long as you two will have different rooms for the weekend.

Your description is a bit unclear; will he be working this weekend, out of town? If so, you'll need to arrange something for yourself to do during the day. This might, in fact, be a good idea anyway -- if you're worried that you'll be forced into too close company, having some individual activities will make it seem less like a single weekend-long date.

Okay, I have calmed down! We just got off the phone and have decided that we will get two rooms and I will only stay Friday night.

I am still nervous! But, feel much better now. We will be able to spend a little time together Friday. I am glad, as I was really not looking forward to waiting 3 or 4 weeks just to be able to spend some time alone.

Thank you Goldenhawke, for the reply.

Elenni

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Have a great time elenni. Can't wait to hear how everything turns out . ;)

Sounds like you two are doing the best you can under your circumstances to spend time together. Enjoy Friday night and keep us posted. :)