jerrysgirl
10-01-2004, 05:16 PM
Hello Everyone,
It has been a couple of months since I have checked in with everyone. The last time I wrote, I was in a situation that I was unsure to stay in my relationship, or if I should move on......well, since I have last wrote, we have made significant progress. I now have met three of his children, the last being he doesn't live near here, and have even met the forbidden, off-limit grandchildren. I love them to death. Of course, I have children their ages, and my children and his grandchildren love each other. They cry when we leave each other. His daughter has been great and has even babysat for me when I have had things come up. My OM (who for the record will be 66 next month) has even made the comment "why don't you just move in and drive back and forth", referring to the fact that I currently live/work in a town about 40 minutes from his house. Well, now THAT scares me. Hard to believe, the one who was pushing so hard for a relationship is scared of doing that!!!! Well, needless to say, I haven't done it yet, and don't know what I may end up doing. We will be officially dating two years in November, and I know how I feel about him. In fact, we just took a very nice week long trip away, just the two of us, and it was so nice. I think we really needed that. I recently turned 30, so you can imagine, I have so many things going through my mind right now about me, my future, my children, career, so forth, but I do know I want him in it, but now I need to determine how much.
Just wanted to let everybody know that I appreciate the advice I was given a few months ago, and that I/we are doing fine, and who knows what the future holds. :D
It has been a couple of months since I have checked in with everyone. The last time I wrote, I was in a situation that I was unsure to stay in my relationship, or if I should move on......well, since I have last wrote, we have made significant progress. I now have met three of his children, the last being he doesn't live near here, and have even met the forbidden, off-limit grandchildren. I love them to death. Of course, I have children their ages, and my children and his grandchildren love each other. They cry when we leave each other. His daughter has been great and has even babysat for me when I have had things come up. My OM (who for the record will be 66 next month) has even made the comment "why don't you just move in and drive back and forth", referring to the fact that I currently live/work in a town about 40 minutes from his house. Well, now THAT scares me. Hard to believe, the one who was pushing so hard for a relationship is scared of doing that!!!! Well, needless to say, I haven't done it yet, and don't know what I may end up doing. We will be officially dating two years in November, and I know how I feel about him. In fact, we just took a very nice week long trip away, just the two of us, and it was so nice. I think we really needed that. I recently turned 30, so you can imagine, I have so many things going through my mind right now about me, my future, my children, career, so forth, but I do know I want him in it, but now I need to determine how much.
Just wanted to let everybody know that I appreciate the advice I was given a few months ago, and that I/we are doing fine, and who knows what the future holds. :D