Venting...

This is just TOO funny!!! Just to let you all know up front, G exceeds his financial responsibility to his ex and the kids. He gives her far beyond what is required of him based on the divorce settlement. So, yesterday, his ex actually suggested in all seriousness that G give her our house . . . *blank stare* (as Amina would so perfectly put it)

Thanks, I just needed to let that out.

OMG! Why doesn't he just bend over and let her shove a telephone pole up there?

Who is his ex...Paris Hilton?

I'd like to know where you and he are supposed to live...a cardboard box, while she has the house and all this money?

I get ZERO from my ex right now. I've been going to court for ALMOST TWO YEARS to settle the child support dispute, and all I want is the bare minimum...about $60 a week per child (we have two kids). I spend more than that on their groceries! Let's not even get into clothing (I buy mine at thrift stores, but theirs at department stores), activities, sports, gasoline running them around, and dental and medical care. He was supposed to carry insurance on them but doesn't. I can't afford insurance.

I have no sympathy for her. She needs to get up off of her lazy *** and work. She wanted custody, she got it. She has to earn the bulk of the money it takes to raise the kids. That's what I do. I work hard every day to provide them what they need. I wanted custody, I got it, they are my responsibility. I'm not saying fathers shouldn't contribute, but they shouldn't have to pay an arm and a leg if they don't have custody. I'd say a father's parental involvement would be way more valuable than more money, and it's absolutely LUDICROUS to expect you two to give up your home! She's a fruitcake! No wonder he divorced her!

Oh Polly!!! I am LMAO! I so needed that response, thanks!
I try to be so patient and understanding when it comes to her, but this was just too much!!! She really does have a problem with feeling entitled!

Hey Sally! It's funny that you mention that because when G first told me of her silly suggestion I wondered if it could possibly work to his benifit. Given the circumstances, definitely not!

The thing that was so absurd about her proposal was that it was NOT in lieu of support and alimony; she actually suggested it IN ADDITION TO the very generous payments (and everything else) she already receives.

She's a dead beat Ex!!!!

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THE HOUSE??? Is she crazy?? I hope he said UMMM NO ... yikes

Yes, for all of you wondering, G definitely said No. There is no way that he would even consider it. He is very generous, but that would just be down right stupid!!!

L--M--A--O @ sally for the sound effects!!!

Oh and I think we should all stop and take a minute to thank Amina for the *blank stare* :D

So hows this going Moon? I was thinkin about you today... :)

Boy you guys would love to hear about my OM's son's mother. She said, deadpan serious, that she is not going to pay him child support when their son moves in with him BECAUSE.......drumroll.....he should just be happy he doesn't have to pay HER anymore! Isn't that GOOD ENOUGH? And that's that!

WHAAAAA??? I'm about to slapaho!

And since she comes to him asking for money far above and beyond his child support ALL the TIME, he asked her if he could do the same to her when the kid lives with him. Guess what the response was........"no." No argument, no explanation, just NO.

Ok. Let's all bust our asses so YOU can sit at home and have MORE KIDS YOU CAN'T AFFORD with your white-trash hubby. I swear, if I ever get her on the phone it'll be Reality Check-Smackdown time. But then again with her wit it would hardly be fair, and there would be no one to laugh about it except me. You should never hang a midget after all.

Originally posted by MrsHedgeHog
pssst! Mer! You forgot the *blank stare*

:D

LOL kelley I just saw this lol I did didn't I? hehe

So hows this going Moon? I was thinkin about you today...

You're awesome Mer! :D Thanks for asking!

Well, she hasn't mentioned anything about it again, I think G made it pretty clear that it will NEVER happen!

G's younger son has started expressing (to his mom) a serious desire to live with us. G is moving into the house on Monday the 1st, so we will see what happens from there.

Thats Great Moon!!!! I'm so glad you and your OM are doing well... I was thinking about the time you both broke up .. it's so nice you both found your way again :D