Dave

Dave.......she is giving you major mixed signals, you are going through all of this emotional upheavel doing everything you can to accomodate her, DAVE SHE HAS DONE NOTHING! Going to her sisters for a week? What did that accomplish? WHAT IS SHE DOING DAVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOTHING BUT WHINING AND COMPLAINING POOOOOR MEEE!!!!!!!!!!!! She reminds me of an 18th century woman, fluttering her fan against her face and falling to the floor in a heap..She is weak, has no strength WHATSOEVER!! I really believe that she is having a hard time letting YOU GO! and doesn't know how to get herself out of this mess. From your posting it seems to me that she's lying to you. She says she's like a zombie when she's around him arguing all the time etc....PPLLLEEEEZE, instead of walking around like a zombie wasting her time, like I said before she should be moving heaven and earth to be with you and SHE'S NOT! The only one that is being hurt right now is you Dave.
Do you have any friends that live out of town, get away for the weekend, get out with your friends.
You choose your emotional state, decide that you are going to do and stand by your word.
Roseanna

He won't do it Rosanna, hes saying stuff like this......

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But like I said I know I won't be able to totally reject her, but if I act like I am fine with just being friends, ((it will make her want me more,)) like last week when we were getting closer and closer, huh?
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Its a bit of a worry to hear how he wants to make her want him more........

I think we've lost him for now....... over and out....

Tink

You guys haven't lost me. I'm not stupid. I see what's going on here. Oh and she stayed at her sister's for a week to babysit her kids because her sister was getting trained for her job in Sacramento.
Yes, it is hard to let go of her and she is probably having a hard time letting go of me too.
All I can do and will do is stay busy and I also start working next week so I won't have all this time to be thinking and moaning about her. And, there are two HOT mamacitas working in my office!!
I'm sure once I meet somebody else who treats me right Alicia will slowly drift out of my heart and I will move on.
Unfortunately, until that day comes, she is still in there.

Oh Daves...... this is good, its all good...... I know Sad, but also good..... You keep Truckin on!!!

Tinka:)

Tink you're the best. Do you add an "s" to everyone's name or just mine (Daves)?

Yeah.......Daves, I try to when ever I can....... don't know where I got that from...

Tinka:)

I like it, it's cool.

Hey thanx ......:)