barb
03-01-2005, 05:36 PM
Hi to all,
I just joined today and was so happy to see there is such a place to go to! My ym is soon to be 35 while I am close to seeing 50 (actually 48, why am I rushing things?) We have known each other for 5 years but got together for real 6 months ago. He moved in with me today.
He is still married on paper but hasn't been with his wife for a while. I was married for 20 years but have been divorced for 5 years. He is currently going through the process of divorce and has three children that are only 9, 10 and 11. I have three girls ages 24, 21 and 19--and a grandson that is 18 months old.
The age thing doesn't bother him at all and he is always reasurring me when I get worried about it. I know that this is right but the age thing still bugs me. My friends all think it is great but say that he is just a boy toy for me. I haven't told anyone about him moving in--I just don't want to hear the negativity since I am still touchy about the age thing.
Any advice from those experiencing the same thing would be most welcome. Thanks in advance,
barb in cold buffalo
I just joined today and was so happy to see there is such a place to go to! My ym is soon to be 35 while I am close to seeing 50 (actually 48, why am I rushing things?) We have known each other for 5 years but got together for real 6 months ago. He moved in with me today.
He is still married on paper but hasn't been with his wife for a while. I was married for 20 years but have been divorced for 5 years. He is currently going through the process of divorce and has three children that are only 9, 10 and 11. I have three girls ages 24, 21 and 19--and a grandson that is 18 months old.
The age thing doesn't bother him at all and he is always reasurring me when I get worried about it. I know that this is right but the age thing still bugs me. My friends all think it is great but say that he is just a boy toy for me. I haven't told anyone about him moving in--I just don't want to hear the negativity since I am still touchy about the age thing.
Any advice from those experiencing the same thing would be most welcome. Thanks in advance,
barb in cold buffalo