Hi all

Am a newbie here... I happen to find this site through a search. I was curious if the guy at work could be serious about an R between us...

First off, we are 17 years apart. I am divorced, with a 14 year old and have been married once before. My BF and I broke up about a year ago, so I have been single since then...

Let me see... first off he comes around and spends time talking with me before he has to go to worrk... which is normally 30 minutes before.

We share those looks where your eyes meet... I know I sound a bit corny, but you know what I mean when instinctually you know that look... can anyone relate?

He finds every excuse to come up to talk to me... he's very respectful, cordial and friendly. So right now I am wondering if it is a simple crush on his part. I think he beatufiul... and normally I wouldn't bother. Have always dated men who are with my normal range... (no offenst), but at leat within 5-10 years... but oh lord not 17 years... Hes 24 and I'm 41... :D

I am still contemplating that his could manifest into something. I mean, after all the years of experience I've had... it seems you can't choose who you love... know what I mean? In that respect, my head is telling me one thing(cradle robber), and my heart another(our chemistry)...

Someone help me make some sense...

:rolleyes:

I thought about all the ramifacations... Mother would hate me, because of my age. But I found that his mother died when he was 17.

So, he is pretty much on his own... and has been for awhile. So that explains his maturity...

I'd say GO FOR IT......And have a great time while you are at it....

What have you got to loose, and why not.....You never know until you try.....But it sounds like you probably WILL :)

I agree with Tinka, take things slow and just go with it. Try not to let the age gap be so monumental---it CAN work as I sure you'll see evidenced by alot of the folks here in relationships with much bigger gaps!
And welcome :D

:)


Respectful , cordial and friendly!

Dont goof that 1 up pretty woman........ :p

Hello there & good morning, Just Ma. Well, it seems that you're in a dilemma. On the one hand I would say, "What the hell, go for the gusto..." The other hand is saying, "This is your co-worker and if something develops between the 2 of you then basically the whole workplace would know eventually... and if it doesn't work out in the longrun then this is someone that you would have to see on a daily basis when you're working." So in other words, my dear, it's a toss-up between the 2 and if I were in your shoes I would actually look elsewhere, mainly because the 2 of you work at the same place.