Iam Going To Be A Long Story.please Hang In There With Me .my Boyfirend Of 10 Years ,just Up And Left One Day With His Son . This Was Almost 3 Years Ago ,to Make This A Little Shorter ,we Have Talked Since Then ,we Both Say We Love Each Other And This Should Have Never Happen .i Will Soon Be 43 Years Old He Is 1 1/2 Years Younger Then Me .i Moved To Another State When He Left Me ,we're Far Away From Each Other .about 2000 Miles.he Was In A Car Accindent A While Back And Has No Money ,neither Do I ,i Work For 7.50 An Hour And All The Bills ,there Is No Way For Me To Move ,plus He Lives With His Mom ,i Feel I Need My Own Place.is This All Wrong? Will We Ever See Each Other Again.is He Maybe Pu;;ing Me Along ,its Been Almost 3 Years. What Do I Do?why Am I Still In Love With Him? Please Help
cindee
04-20-2005, 04:37 PM
In those three years, have you gotten out there and dated anyone else? Just wondering if you have tried to get on with your life and have realized that he really is the one you want to be with, or have you spent this time pining for him? It's not a judgement on my part . . . just trying to get a better picture. I really feel for you though and wish you all the best.
Desert Spring
04-24-2005, 10:36 PM
Sometimes you can love somebody and yet, it's not right to be with each other. If you feel that you need your own place, then my guess would be that that's exactly what you need right now. It doesn't sound like you or he can afford to move into a place together of your own, so if you got together, it wouldn't really be on the terms that you need to be happy. Believe me, I'm a romantic and in no way shape or form do I think that money is the most important thing, but it is crucial to listen to yourself about the basic things that you need to be happy.
No one knows what the future will bring, and maybe in time there will be a way for you to be together, but for better or worse, it sounds like that time isn't now. Take care of you, don't burn your bridges, and wait and see what the future will bring.
