Gold Digger

Recently my sisters boyfriend found out how old my boyfriend is and blow up. He started to call me a ***** and gold digger. This morning again he called my sister to tell me that his grandfather was looking for a young wife. I was really hurt becaues of this. I know that there are girls out there that are looking to hit it big but I could never do that. I respect my OM and I offer to pay when we go out sometimes. What should I tell my sisters boyfriend? I know I dont have to exsplain myself to him but my sister wants to double date. I cant have her boyfriend calling mine "dad" or other names.

Personally, I think you should tell him he's an a$$! lol! But that won't work, so it's probably best not to say anything, or tell him who you date is none of his business. Then I'd tell your sister to get a new boyfriend. He sounds like an idiot....or maybe very insecure. I'd also give up the idea of double dating. He doesn't sound like the type of person I'd want to hangout with.

Yes..I agree with Trish..he sounds very ignorant..not sure I'd be spending much time around him...what does your sister see in this guy anyway...he seems pretty insecure and is probably just jealous.

hmm i don't understand how he would jump at you and call you a gold digger just because your So is a certain age.....yea he is wrong to do that. when you talk to him tell him what you are sayign here you are not with him for the money you pay when you guys go out as well.


but maybe he is saying that because of the material possessions he has? e.g expensive car?

yep..I think he's jealous! Either of the OM who's apparently got more $$ than he does or perhaps he's got a little thing for YOU ? :eek:
Tell him to go scratch!

yep..I think he's jealous! Either of the OM who's apparently got more $$ than he does or perhaps he's got a little thing for YOU ? :eek:
Tell him to go scratch!

I agree with Rave....it seems a little strange for him to say such harsh things about your dating situation or more than one occassion. He might have a little thing for you. However, I would not go on a double date with him b/c he seems a bit immature and it might make for a tense evening.

Nu :cool:

That guy sounds pretty aggorant. Who is he to dictate who you should date? He's not even in your family! What I don't understand is why he cares at all.

He's rude and ignorant. I would answer him back and say that you're not gold digging, from then on just ignore him and don't even consider him if he's in your same room, let alone going out together as couples. He doesn't deserve your respect and not even your sister's. From experience I learned that such people probably do not even respect their girlfriend, your sister should wisely reconsider him. I bet he's a cheater!

You do not owe that jerk any kind of explanation. Some folks are so proud of their ignorance they glory in people's responses...just let him alone and count your blessings you did not meet someone like your sister's boyfriend.

Thanks to everyone for the support. I told my sister that it would not be happening. I dont have time for this. To young and to much to live for....lol.

Recently my sisters boyfriend found out how old my boyfriend is and blow up. He started to call me a ***** and gold digger. This morning again he called my sister to tell me that his grandfather was looking for a young wife. I was really hurt becaues of this. I know that there are girls out there that are looking to hit it big but I could never do that. I respect my OM and I offer to pay when we go out sometimes. What should I tell my sisters boyfriend? I know I dont have to exsplain myself to him but my sister wants to double date. I cant have her boyfriend calling mine "dad" or other names.


Dont go on DD with them until he learns to respect your relationship otherwise it will get very confrontational. My mother was acting this way when our relationship started, she called my girlfriend all sorts of names. After I stopped staying in contact with her after a while she calmed down and realized that being supportive of me is what she has to do if she wants to still have a son. Maybe talk to your sister and have her round her guy up a little.