I guess its over

This is kind of a long story but I am going to keep it short. I had written earlier about my OM and how he almost never has time for us. Well in the last two weeks I have not heard anything from him at all. The last time we talked he was on his way to an appointment and just wanted to say hi. We ended up talking for about 30 min and I thought we were moving in the right direction. Then he never called back or answered my emails. I was concerned at first that something happened but now I just want to let him go and move on. But I think if I dont talk to him before moving on then I will always have that question there. He always responds to emails, no matter what. I think he wants it to be over. Should I just leave it alone and stop caring for him? Or should I just wait and see what happens?

I don't know the background to your relationship, I don't know how long the two of you were together, but I do agree that it sounds like you need some sort of closure about the relationship, and find out if it is going to end.

If possible, try and be really up front about it, but don't bombard him. Next time you speak, whenever that may be, ask him what exactly is going on, find out where he stands in the relationship.

If it gets down to the wire and there really has been no way to contact him, send him an email and ask the same thing. If he doesn't respond, you have your answer... And you'll know that at least you tried to resolve your relationship in an adult manner.

I hope you get some resolution on your situation!!!!

I don't think you can just stop caring about someone... But I think it may be time to move on..... I wouldn't even go back to him to me I'm sorry he only wants to talk to you when it's convienient for him... and you deserve to be #1 and you deserve someone that wants to be with you!! You can talk to him and have closer I think thats a huge part of moving on... tell him that you care about him but you don't want to have to fight for his love... or beg or anything..