Curious Mac
06-07-2005, 04:12 PM
A little overview of my situation...
Last week i attended a 4 day national conference for the company i work for where i met a gorgeous older woman. I am 23 and she is 37. We met on day 2 of the conference at dinner where we began talking and getting to know one another. We continued to spend a good deal of time together, and when we weren't together it seemed as though she came looking for me moreso than I looking for her. I was somewhat baffled on why this beautiful older woman wanted to spend so much time with me rather than people that were closer to her age.
At the end of the conference i gave her my business card and asked to keep in touch. (She lives in British Columbia and I live in Ontario which is about 2500 miles apart) To my surprise the next morning after the end of the conference i received an email from her (which at least told me that she was thinking of me). We have continued to email each other back and forth, and I have since asked her if she would like to get together for a few days in the near future. Her reply was that she would have to give it some thought, although in theory it sounded fun, and then she asked/suggested a location for us to get together. I left the ball in her court asking her to give it some thought and let me know.
What do you think? Do you think she really does want to meet up with me or was she just saying she'd give it some thought to be nice. Could it be the distance between us or the age difference that she is apprehensive about? How do I bring up the topic of getting together a second time without seeming impatient that i haven't heard from her regarding it?
Anyway, any feedback would be greatly appreciated. I hope this blurb makes sense, but if you have any questions please let me know.
Last week i attended a 4 day national conference for the company i work for where i met a gorgeous older woman. I am 23 and she is 37. We met on day 2 of the conference at dinner where we began talking and getting to know one another. We continued to spend a good deal of time together, and when we weren't together it seemed as though she came looking for me moreso than I looking for her. I was somewhat baffled on why this beautiful older woman wanted to spend so much time with me rather than people that were closer to her age.
At the end of the conference i gave her my business card and asked to keep in touch. (She lives in British Columbia and I live in Ontario which is about 2500 miles apart) To my surprise the next morning after the end of the conference i received an email from her (which at least told me that she was thinking of me). We have continued to email each other back and forth, and I have since asked her if she would like to get together for a few days in the near future. Her reply was that she would have to give it some thought, although in theory it sounded fun, and then she asked/suggested a location for us to get together. I left the ball in her court asking her to give it some thought and let me know.
What do you think? Do you think she really does want to meet up with me or was she just saying she'd give it some thought to be nice. Could it be the distance between us or the age difference that she is apprehensive about? How do I bring up the topic of getting together a second time without seeming impatient that i haven't heard from her regarding it?
Anyway, any feedback would be greatly appreciated. I hope this blurb makes sense, but if you have any questions please let me know.

