I would have thought .....

Out of all the days I thought I would hear from him, TODAY I was certain he'd call.

Today is my b-day, it's half way through the day and not one single word from him.

While I shouldn't be shocked or surprised, it's still not a good feeling.

I think this will be my last post about HIM as I'm over the "whiny, week" that keeps reeking through my posts when I talk about the things happening (or not happening I should say).

Blah ........I just feel like this is ANOTHER stab.

Thanks for listening to my complaints ........time to stop complaining and look forward to something good happening in the future.

Happy B-Day !!! Hope you have a geat day !!

:eek: (((((((((HUG)))))))))))))

And Happy Birthday!

What a boneheaded jerk. :p

And you have NEVER, EVER whined, thesedays. You are a strong, resilient, intelligent, sensitive and WONDERFUL woman. So, if anything, you've been here gaining strength and courage and you're coming out of this with a whole lot of friends...

... so you can thank the ratbastard for giving you, maybe not what you wanted, but maybe more what you needed... a lot of GIRLFRIENDS. :D

Love ya, thesedays... you're one helluva woman and he's a FOOL. Good riddance to bad rubbish! Post anything you want, anytime you want about anything you want...

~phos

Happy Birthday!!!

Happy Birthday thesedays!!

So sorry you're dealing with this. I mentioned before that my ex-h (who is 11 years older than me) had a LOT of the same issues as R. THIS ONE TOO. OMG...year after year. They must have been twins in a former life or something. :rolleyes: And when I expressed my displeasure over this issue, he made it my problem. How caring.

Well - great guys are out there.

Wishing you the best!

:)

I think you know what the deal is. Its a tough thing to realize, but you need to be happy and that means moving forward and letting life take its course. Its not healthy to be so stressed out and miserable.

You deserve more than he is giving to you and you know it.

Hope you have a Happy Birthday and that the next year of your life is filled with love and happiness!

Any chance he's waiting to give you a birthday surprise tonight after work? Sorry, don't have information of what you've dealt with in the past with him...just going off trying to give a person benefit of the doubt. If it turns out he doesn't call you or anything... that's down right inconsiderate and self-absorbed on his part. Some people only think about themselves and you can't change that.

Just know you have a lot of people that care about you and want you to have a spectacular birthday. Your never alone when people care about you! Enjoy your day no matter what happens with him.

K

There are a few more hours but if he doesn't call it's just one more thing to add to the list...That's not meant to be mean. But, if he can't even call the person he was living with, call a truce and just send birthday wishes...

Have a good birthday anyway. You can do it.

Happy Birthday Thesedays. It's long past time to be your own best friend.

Eat cake and be merry. Next year is gonna be waaaay better!!!

Happy Birthday thesedays!! I can certainly sympathize with you. I'm sitting here as well (on my birthday too) waiting to hear from my boyfriend. :mad:

From what I've read about the two of you, this seems to be the last straw. In a way, maybe it's a good thing. Maybe it's what you need in order to move on without him.

Anyhow, enjoy your day and try not to waste your thoughts and energy on him. This day's all about YOU! :) Cheers!!

happy birthday these days...those other days are for the birds....

hey...you've always been very sensible...from your posts et al...i am sure you will come out on top...the storm will pass...godbless....

Happy Birthday ladies! (cabin fever and these days) I know it feels rotten to not here from your guys but I hope you can invite some friends over and celebrate anyway. Be good to yourself! Best Wishes! :)

Well that just stinks! Remember my brother-in-law I mentioned. Well that was his M.O. One year he forgot my sister's birthday and she pitched a fit. Next day there was a new Mercedes in her driveway with a big red bow on it! Of course, they couldn't afford it! lol I know how disappointed you are. Let us know what happens. I wouldn't be surprized if your YM does something equally as impulsive, as soon as he figures out his blunder. :(

Thesedays...I can totally understand your pain right now. To vent and share our feelings is what this forum is all about, and the support here is out and out the best anywhere. All of us have good news to share sometimes, and bad news at other times, and even "whiny" news. But it sure is good to know that we as "cyber-girlfriends" can sit around and share this news...whether good or bad, and find compassionate ears to listen and hearts to bond with.

A birthday is a special day, one that you hope will be remembered by those who matter most to you. I'm sorry you didn't get the phone call you wanted to receive the most, but on the upside...you DID receive warm greetings from the people here!

!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY !!