Question about a new relationship

I am a 28 yr old male and have been dating a 34 yr old female for about 3 months. She is concerned about us not being at the same points in our lives. She wants to get married and have kids in the near future and does not believe that i am ready for thos commitments. How do I show her that I am ready for that??

You don't have a large gap. I get the feeling this isn't something that you have to show her. You've only been seeing each other three months; I get the feeling this is something she is just saying...

I've been trying to figure out a way to say that nicely and I didn't do too well, I afraid. Just in case I made a mistake, do you give her the impression that you are not ready to settle down and have kids?

Efficiency. Two birds one stone: Don't use a condom. She'll be pregnant and you'll show her you're committed. Problem solved.

LMAO Pash! Your posts eerily remind me of my ex husband.......

Efficiency. Two birds one stone: Don't use a condom. She'll be pregnant and you'll show her you're committed. Problem solved.

Well, disease risks and unplanned pregnancy problems aside....

Three months is not a long time to decide to spend a lifetime together, but if you really believe it's possible then why don't you just propose marriage to her?

Just for the record :p pregnancy does not always guarantee committment - trust me I have intimate knowledge of that :mad:

BUT if you feel that strongly just show her by staying with her, don't rush her into anything though that she might resent. Give her time to see the truth of your feelings. It is hard for many women to believe a man when the man says 'I love you' or 'I want to be with you forever' or anything along those lines... and it is even harder the sooner it happens after you first meet. But if you are serious... then show patience and let her see by your actions that you are serious :)