Update on Me

Hi all! Just thought I would let you all know how I am doing. I've actually been moving this this heartbreaking time very well. I have kept myself busy and have been meeting some new people. I actually broke my lease and am going to move in with a guy I work with in November. I finally caught a break both financially and socially!

AS for the *****, aka Terri, I have not heard from her at all. Last night she popped online, and didn't say anything to me. I wanted to, but I promised I wouldn't contact her until she contacted me. It still hurts of course, but I think I am well on my way to recovery. I have been sleeping so much better, drink SOOO much less, and I feel so much more healthy and less stressed. Therapy has been going well, I found out I have a lot more issues to work with than I orginally thought.

AS for now, I am just very angry at how things turned out. This woman said I was her soulmate, part of her family..how could she just toss me aside like a piece of garbage? Eh...I may never know, but at least I am starting to feel better about myself. I have a ways to go, but I am definitely on the road I need to be on!

Let me know what's going on with you guys.

So glad to hear you're ok.

Taking life a day at a time is best and it does get better. Always remember that you're a person someone esle will find worthwhile to have and to hold.

I'm sorry you went through this, but focus on youself now and try not to think about the other person. You are well loved alone as it is with another.

Paris

Glad you're starting to feel better Fuscarelli. :)

I was thinking about you the other day and wondering how you are doing.

Thanks for the updates. It sounds like you are doing much better, I am SO glad.

As for issues, we all have them, lol. And some of them we don't even realize until we get overwhelmed! You are not alone in that respect at all.

Things are fine with me, thanks. Great to hear from you.

Good to hear you are doing well, Fus. Ain't therapy great when you need it....just to have an objective view from someone who's not personally invested in your life...someone who will listen and filter all the emotion and issues in your life...it's just such a helpful thing. Too bad so many people (especially men for some reason) won't even consider it. Hey, I was (am) an intelligent, stable, "together" person, but at a crucial/emotionally draining time in my life counseling set me back up on my feet headed in the right direction again.

Keep up the positive thoughts. I know the hardest question to deal with is the big "WHY??" (especially like my ex ym, your gf proclaimed undying love, soulmate-ship, etc.). When nothing adds up in our brain, it's harder to get past. But it sounds like you are on your way, and I'm so happy for you!

Awesome about the new living and social situations as well...it's all good! :)

You sound better!! Glad to hear that you are getting help.....it will take a while but you will heal!!

Really pleased to hear this. Thanks for updating us! :)