SinfulWays
09-05-2005, 09:34 AM
to have found this place and group! I am sure all "my"/"our" issues have been discussed 1000 times here, but of course for me they are new. I was wondering this morning why it took me so long to type the words on the google "older women, younger man" and almost fell off my chair when I saw so many articles and so many positive opinions. Of course, I was convinced I was a certified Nut Case (well.. knew I was a bit crazy all along, but thought now I was certifiable) and concluded that it was because I was convinced he was going to go away very soon.... Well, he does not seem to want to. So, time to look at this in the face!
My fear now is that you all (that I see are mostly GORGEOUS and thin and lovely!! ohmy!) will find my crazy sense of humor too much, my whining ridiculous, and other insecurity issues... but then again, insecurity is what the need for support is all about, isn't it?
Basically I felt (feel?) that for Demi Moore and Susan Sarandon and other successful beauties this is great, but I am quite a dumpy 45-years old mother of 6 (oldest is 24), that never expected this wonderful 28-years old man to fall in love with her and even less to feel so moved in her heart for him! It simply rocked my world.. I am divorced *twice* have been dating lately a lot after failing in a relationship with an egotistic scientist that would brush aside anything coming between himself and his research papers (but that was soooo smart and sexy) and met Harry, who is a serious looking accountant, with a great self-esteem, that never did something "unreasonable" in his life, but never found a woman that really accepted him as he is (which of course I do! what else?) and not only loves me but is so comitted to our relationship that became friends with my ex-husband and was babysitting our Siamese while he was away.... (the ex has feline custody).
To make things a bit more complicated, of course I met him when I was due to move to Canada, after failing to find work in Europe where i had been living the last 12 years (I am a psychologist but work mostly as a translator), and now I have to think about what to do. I am writing from Toronto but I am flying "to his waiting arms" on the 13 and I am a wreck. I think we will grow even closer.. and then?
Well.. that is about me. I am curious about what there is to read out here and I am sure i will be a chatty member very soon!.
Good luck to all of you ladies and I hope I don't step on too many toes!
I survived a lot by laughing and having a wacky sense of humor, and I am afraid I am not going to leave it at home .....
Maria (SinfulWays)
PS: my nick comes from what my daughter (20, studying to become an Evangelic Pastor) calls my behaviour!
My fear now is that you all (that I see are mostly GORGEOUS and thin and lovely!! ohmy!) will find my crazy sense of humor too much, my whining ridiculous, and other insecurity issues... but then again, insecurity is what the need for support is all about, isn't it?
Basically I felt (feel?) that for Demi Moore and Susan Sarandon and other successful beauties this is great, but I am quite a dumpy 45-years old mother of 6 (oldest is 24), that never expected this wonderful 28-years old man to fall in love with her and even less to feel so moved in her heart for him! It simply rocked my world.. I am divorced *twice* have been dating lately a lot after failing in a relationship with an egotistic scientist that would brush aside anything coming between himself and his research papers (but that was soooo smart and sexy) and met Harry, who is a serious looking accountant, with a great self-esteem, that never did something "unreasonable" in his life, but never found a woman that really accepted him as he is (which of course I do! what else?) and not only loves me but is so comitted to our relationship that became friends with my ex-husband and was babysitting our Siamese while he was away.... (the ex has feline custody).
To make things a bit more complicated, of course I met him when I was due to move to Canada, after failing to find work in Europe where i had been living the last 12 years (I am a psychologist but work mostly as a translator), and now I have to think about what to do. I am writing from Toronto but I am flying "to his waiting arms" on the 13 and I am a wreck. I think we will grow even closer.. and then?
Well.. that is about me. I am curious about what there is to read out here and I am sure i will be a chatty member very soon!.
Good luck to all of you ladies and I hope I don't step on too many toes!
I survived a lot by laughing and having a wacky sense of humor, and I am afraid I am not going to leave it at home .....
Maria (SinfulWays)
PS: my nick comes from what my daughter (20, studying to become an Evangelic Pastor) calls my behaviour!