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OM meets family

vivalagourami
09-27-2005, 08:41 AM
We've been together 4 years, and my OM finally met my grandparents (who are about as old as his parents) He's 58 and I'm 24. He's met my mom and my brother, sister-in-law and my neice, because they come down to NYC to visit me.

I grew up in a house with my grandparents living there, but I'm kind of a bad girl, because in the last 4 years, I've actually only seen my grandparents 3 times (the time with my OM inclusive) and I've only see my mother and brother like 4 times.

I was a little worried, because I know my mother and brother didn't tell them about how old he was and my grandparents can be a little judgemental. After spending about 8 hours with him though, they loved him so much, that they actually invited him (they meant "us", but they said "him") to live with them in their winter apartment in Florida. Not to mention nearly demanding that he come for Thanksgiving...and Christmas. Then my grandmother said, "I'm glad you kids are happy." It was quite cute in my opinion.

Just wanted to share that, because it really made me laugh.

CabinFever
09-27-2005, 08:56 AM
Hee hee, great story. I love it! Isn't it great when these meetings go so well, especially if you've agonized over them?

greeneyedgirl
09-27-2005, 09:01 AM
and that's as it should be, viva, happy for ya'll

glad it turned out the way that so many people expect it WON'T!

:D

wvdreamer
09-27-2005, 09:56 AM
I am glad to hear the visit went over well!

fos4snt
09-27-2005, 11:29 AM
:D Excellent news. Grandparents never cease to amaze me. In my experience, its parents who usually freak out and grandparents who are happy for the grandkids. Maybe because of how long they've lived, they know better how hard it is to find GOOD love. ;)

Glad to hear it went well!
~phos

girliegirl
09-27-2005, 12:34 PM
How awesome for you guys!! We all hope things will go that well for us in hard situations.

LilBabyCakes
09-27-2005, 03:04 PM
I was in a similar situation...I was introducing my OM as my boyfriend for the first time to my 2nd mother (my best friends mom) and she was nothing but supportive. The crazy thing is, I was dreading it for days before we saw her. But it went great!! it just goes to show you how people can suprise you.

Zoo Baby
09-30-2005, 06:12 PM
That brightened my day! There is hope after all!

That's great news! Take care!

Christina

rosie
10-04-2005, 03:17 PM
Thats really nice to hear, you sound happy :D


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