Samanta
10-13-2005, 06:12 AM
Hello everybody!
I am new at this forum and I am so happy that I found you! My "boyfriend" (he isn't really a boy any more...) is almost 20 years older than me. I love him really much and he is my soulmate. I met him 1 year and 4 months ago and we have been together since.
My english isn't the best, but I hope you understand me anyway!
Samanta :)
greeneyedgirl
10-13-2005, 06:22 AM
Hi!
I understand you PERFECTLY and welcome to the boards!!
would you like to share your story with the gang? it is so understandable if you want to wait a while but i tend to be a jump in first kinda gal :D
if you have any questions about how to maneuver around the site, i'm happy to help.
once again, welcome
Tracy
MerAlove23
10-13-2005, 06:56 AM
hi and welcome to ageless!!!
Tell us more about you guys.. How old are you and he? How is it going? etc
Zoo Baby
10-13-2005, 09:36 AM
WELCOME! I love it when we get new members!
Christina
CabinFever
10-13-2005, 09:46 AM
WELCOME! I love it when we get new members!
Me too!!! Yay!
Anyhow, welcome Samanta!! Glad you joined and look forward to getting to know you. :)
aishiteru
10-13-2005, 11:40 PM
Hi Samanta,
I have a same name as you do. ;) (Samantha). I'm 27 years old with BF which is 51 (23yrs diff) things going on very well but ofcourse we do have some up and downs which i believe most of the couples does have. :D
Samanta
10-14-2005, 04:44 AM
Thank you so much for all your kind words! :)
Some details about us:
I am 25 and my love will be 45 in november. He has been married before but he is divorced since 1999. He has two boys who are almost as old as me but they live with their mother.
He is my first "boyfriend". And I hope that he will be mine as long as we live. I am often worried about that he will die many years before me, but he use to say that we should live every day and make the best of the time we have together. And I think we do so.
Our families have not said anything negative about our relationship. And I am so happy and reliefed about that! My parents are always happy to meet him and I feel always welcome when we visit his parents.
So I think I have reasons to feel very happy with him, and I do!
We are thinking about having a baby. But I feel that we should do something about it soon before he is getting any older. What are your opinions about it? Have you positive or negative experiences of OM+baby?
Thank you!
MerAlove23
10-14-2005, 04:47 AM
Well i have a 15 month old son with my husband who is 17 years older than me... :)
I know I'm the old fashion type but I suggest you guys have a great relationship, marry, then have a baby :) SO I think it's great if you have kids.. as long as you both want them :)