I want to cry

This hurts so bad. I just got dumped.

Little bit of an update: "C" and I got back together.

So, he hasn't answered any of my calls for the past week. And today he finally answers. And guess what he says? That he's been seeing some other girl for the past week! He said he wanted more than just "oral." I never slept with him. I don't regret not sleeping with him. But I can't believe he's THAT shallow!!!! I knew we were going to end it, but not over sex!!!!! He also had the nerve to tell me he doesn't know how long it's going to last. He made it sound like he's using her for sex. He told me he cares for me, blah, blah, blah. And he still wants to be friends. I'm so mad!

Christina

Christina,

I'm so sorry to hear that....that sucks!!!

You sound like such a wonderful woman and you deserve so much better.

(((((HUG))))) Hang in there....I'm sure the right man is out there for you.

jesique.

Please, don't cry, Christina. He definitely is not worth your tears. *HUG*
Best,
Jenn

I know, thier more tears of anger. I am so ANGRY! I thought he was more mature than that. I just hope his new girl knows she better put out or he's gone. I'm so glad I didn't sleep with him. I can't believe he did this!! And he said he would call me tommorrow! Give me a break! He didn't call when we were going out, now he's going to call the day after he breaks up with me??? And he still "cares" for me?? Well, you know what? If he really did care for me he would have made the sacrifice. He's lucky I did anything with him sexually! If he calls tommorow he is going to get an earful!!

On his behalf though, he did come clean about it, and he was honest with me. That's about the only good thing he did tonight.

Christina

Christina,

I'm so sorry to hear that....that sucks!!!

You sound like such a wonderful woman and you deserve so much better.

(((((HUG))))) Hang in there....I'm sure the right man is out there for you.

jesique.

Ditto!!!

I'm so sorry.. He didn't Deserve you anyway... Remember what goes around comes around... !!

Well, no one ever said age = maturity, that's for sure. What a JERK. I'm so sorry, qpmomma. You definitely, definitely deserve better. @$#^%%$^#!

If I could, I'd smack him for you. What a TOOL! What a LOSER! What a JERK!

On the other note, at least you didn't sleep with him and can walk away from this dignity intact, lesson learned and good God, girl, do you really want someone like this for a FRIEND? Eww..

If ever someone deserved to be kicked to the curb, you know it t'would be he.

(((((HUGS)))))
~phos

This hurts so bad. I just got dumped.

Little bit of an update: "C" and I got back together.

So, he hasn't answered any of my calls for the past week. And today he finally answers. And guess what he says? That he's been seeing some other girl for the past week! He said he wanted more than just "oral." I never slept with him. I don't regret not sleeping with him. But I can't believe he's THAT shallow!!!! I knew we were going to end it, but not over sex!!!!! He also had the nerve to tell me he doesn't know how long it's going to last. He made it sound like he's using her for sex. He told me he cares for me, blah, blah, blah. And he still wants to be friends. I'm so mad!

Christina

Yikes! How rude of him and qpmomma *hugs*

It certainly does seem that he has differing relationship priorities than you. You deserve to be treated a lot better than that :( I'm sorry.

This guy certainly wasn't the nicest in his approach, but I don't think he's a jerk for breaking up over sexual priority differences. I wouldn't stay with a man who only wanted to have oral sex. Of course, if I knew that from the beginning than I wouldn't start dating someone like that in the first place. Having sex is an important choice and its important to be with someone who shares your views on the subject.

So sorry to hear about that, you do deserve better as you sound like a beautiful person with a kind heart. Some people can be so cruel and cold hearted these days, well it's his loss.

This guy certainly wasn't the nicest in his approach, but I don't think he's a jerk for breaking up over sexual priority differences. I wouldn't stay with a man who only wanted to have oral sex. Of course, if I knew that from the beginning than I wouldn't start dating someone like that in the first place. Having sex is an important choice and its important to be with someone who shares your views on the subject.

But he knew from DAY ONE!!! That's what I don't get. It's a bit of a shock b/c all this time he's not once come and told me it bothered him so much. If he did, I would have ended it a long time ago.

Christina