dont do many social things with others?

hi, i am 25 my boyf is 20, i find that sometimes i feel that i see my boyf all the time and we never socialise with others, either becuase his friends are at uni, or they all go out the boys cos they are young and go to clubs and my boyf thinks what is the point of going with them. I also feel that all my friends are socilising in couples as they are with older guys and sometimes i feel a bit left out...does anyone else have this problem being with a younger man and not having many friends together.. or am i just being paranoid?

i find on weekends we end up going out for dinner just me and him or go to the cinema just me and him and we ahve now been together ovr a year now, i guess sometimes i wish mayb e do more coupley things with people and we dont have much social friends together

HELP ANYONE?

What other interests do you have or COULD you have? There are things that you can do that have people of all ages involved. Car clubs have people from 18 to 70. They go places and go out to eat and it can be a lot of fun. Another interest is if you like the outdoors, the Sierra Club has weekend things and trips all the time.

Probably your biggest obstacle may be your partner, right? How does he feel about all the "coupleness" you two do?

Well, my boyfriend is over 4000 miles away but when we are together we tend to do family things with his family when we're not spending time alone. I've met a couple of his friends briefly but to be honest, I'm actually glad that we haven't done social things with them.

They tend to act really young for their ages and none of them have girlfriends so it wouldn't even be feasible to do "couples" things together. When he comes here, there are several activities that we can do together if he desires, such as: camping, field herping, socializing with my friends, some of whom he has chatted with online for years, socializing with my family, shopping together (I never go to malls so that would be a treat for me), or cooking together.

How about you and your boyfrind take some kind of class together? At the Loblaws here you can attend gourmet cooking classes. Maybe he would be interested in doing mini golf or paint ball? Something a little more upbeat than parking your butt in a theatre for the evening :)

Hope you find something fun to liven your dates!