PiccoloLatino
12-08-2005, 06:51 AM
Greetings form Croatia,
I am totaly new to this kind of thinking (mature woman with younger guy). Im 25 and counting but i got into position couple of years ago where i started to realise that i an atractive to older women too, not just to girls of my age. Well its pretty strange tahat i never actually looked at older women as possible lovers ( i had few fantasies here and there i admit) but i always shruged that ideas right away after they were born becouse i looked at it as immoral and starnge. I had several girlfriends always almost as same age as mine, but last two summers i was so messed up of what to think about older women. Well majorly what happened when i was not with my girlfriend i noticed strange looks from womens that could easely be my mothers!
Well the strangest part was that those were not any kind of women but chicks per se (beutiful latino types) and they were looking at me like some puberty messed up girls! Well the most wierdest part is im nothing to look at!! Im five foot three of height and pretty skinny (100 pounds). Unfortunately this kind of comporting heavy inflicted on my notion of marrige ( well there were some moments when housband or fiancee was not arround, that ceirtan women were actualy eating me with their eyes) well what if happens to me this kind of thing in 15-20 yrs from now that if my wife gets approached by younger male she would rouin all past 15-20 yrs. (ok you will say that you don't know what will happen next) but im rather conservative in my notion of marrige and am prone to south italian stile of handling problems (if we have agreement we have agreement and we stick to it, else if i cross you you shoot me in the head, if you cross me i ....).
So i basically trash notion of marrige to shreds and focus myself on midterm agreement with my girlfriedn (i got into another topic...) where if we get bored of one another we quit on mutual agreement and dont try to have lovers besides (if im with my companion for ceirtan portion of time i don't even dream of going out with someone else at the same time and vice versa) if we quit we quit, we don't cheat one another.
Here i go to culprum of my fuzzy thoughts.
I got impressed by a woman that is not too much older than me (9 yrs older), but!! she is married. We work in the same building, and i occasionaly have administrational work to deliver to that company that i dont have time to deal myself. She works there as an accountant and i barely see her much but when we meet, well there are ceirtanly sparks. The problem is she's married! By that i would be braking my rool of non intrusion into other's relasionship, and my body and soul are talking some other language that my fuzzy mind doesnt like.
The fact is i have girlfriend, there are probably thens of women in my vicinity whom are more attractive than her, but that woman almost constantly enters into my dreams (while im with my girlfriend!!!).
I would appreciate any coments and advices that are sound.
Thx, Patrick
I am totaly new to this kind of thinking (mature woman with younger guy). Im 25 and counting but i got into position couple of years ago where i started to realise that i an atractive to older women too, not just to girls of my age. Well its pretty strange tahat i never actually looked at older women as possible lovers ( i had few fantasies here and there i admit) but i always shruged that ideas right away after they were born becouse i looked at it as immoral and starnge. I had several girlfriends always almost as same age as mine, but last two summers i was so messed up of what to think about older women. Well majorly what happened when i was not with my girlfriend i noticed strange looks from womens that could easely be my mothers!
Well the strangest part was that those were not any kind of women but chicks per se (beutiful latino types) and they were looking at me like some puberty messed up girls! Well the most wierdest part is im nothing to look at!! Im five foot three of height and pretty skinny (100 pounds). Unfortunately this kind of comporting heavy inflicted on my notion of marrige ( well there were some moments when housband or fiancee was not arround, that ceirtan women were actualy eating me with their eyes) well what if happens to me this kind of thing in 15-20 yrs from now that if my wife gets approached by younger male she would rouin all past 15-20 yrs. (ok you will say that you don't know what will happen next) but im rather conservative in my notion of marrige and am prone to south italian stile of handling problems (if we have agreement we have agreement and we stick to it, else if i cross you you shoot me in the head, if you cross me i ....).
So i basically trash notion of marrige to shreds and focus myself on midterm agreement with my girlfriedn (i got into another topic...) where if we get bored of one another we quit on mutual agreement and dont try to have lovers besides (if im with my companion for ceirtan portion of time i don't even dream of going out with someone else at the same time and vice versa) if we quit we quit, we don't cheat one another.
Here i go to culprum of my fuzzy thoughts.
I got impressed by a woman that is not too much older than me (9 yrs older), but!! she is married. We work in the same building, and i occasionaly have administrational work to deliver to that company that i dont have time to deal myself. She works there as an accountant and i barely see her much but when we meet, well there are ceirtanly sparks. The problem is she's married! By that i would be braking my rool of non intrusion into other's relasionship, and my body and soul are talking some other language that my fuzzy mind doesnt like.
The fact is i have girlfriend, there are probably thens of women in my vicinity whom are more attractive than her, but that woman almost constantly enters into my dreams (while im with my girlfriend!!!).
I would appreciate any coments and advices that are sound.
Thx, Patrick