If I had only known!

Hi everyone!

I am new to the older woman/younger man club, but if I had only known how wonderful it can be I would have tried it a long time ago!!

Now I'm not sure what to do with it. I'm 45, he's 25. I am crazy about him, but we are keeping it a big secret from the world. At first it was a FWB thing, now I am ready for more....but I keep asking myself what in the world are you doing, woman?

So, I'll gladly listen to any advice you have for me. Thanks!

Welcome to ageless.

I think many of us came into our relationships thinking we were doing something taboo and had to hide it for whatever reason. Question is, how does HE feel about going public? ;)

You're both adults, you're not dealing with a VYM (as in, under 25), so the only hitch I could see is in how he feels about what's to come. People will react. They always do. :rolleyes: LOL But, they get over it, too.

Hope you enjoy your stay here at ageless and everything works out for ya.
~phos

time to get out of the closet, if you found something good then enjoy it.

i was PETRIFIED when i first got together with my y/m and now husband, i was staring at people to see if they reacted. now, its like, who bloody cares, this is my darling man and i dont want to be distracted from my moments with him because of a strangers stare. it took me donkey's years to get to this point, i hope you DONT take as long.

Good luck!