19-27

hey have met a really nice guy but he is 19 and im 27 some one asked me today if i was baby sitting,my mum and best mate like him but he looks really young,what do i do?am i sick if i date him?he has the kindest heart but i think he is smitten after three days ahhhh help :confused:

Well, if he's that young, he proably is smitten with you, when you're young you tend to fall quickly, that doesn't mean it may not last. If your family and inner circle friends are supportive, don't worry about anything else. Enjoy this ym as he sounds like he's really into you.

A word of caution, being this young, he call fall as quickly for you as he can out. There are alot of changes of young people within 18-30 I say, its a time when they're still finding themselves and coming into their own skin. It doesn't mean that once he finds himself he will leave you but it can be a bit bumpy. You have to be secure in yourself enough to support him and let him find the person he needs to be, once he overs that...it could be a matter of timing, he could very well be the best person for you.

So with that in mind, enjoy your time with him. Don't let anything esle worry you or cause you undue stress. Its not worth it, its worth more to love and be love and just let everything else roll off your shoulders. Good luck.

Paris

I agree, for the most part, on what irparis said. My added word of caution is this, don't decide from the start that it "won't last" entirely based on his age. I am sure most of the older women here would not like to be clumped into a group based on their age...

My bf is 19, I am 33. We have been living together for over a year. My children and I have become very much a part of his family. (Just had a big family christmas gathering with his family last night) We are both very serious about eachother.

And yes, that could change. However, that can change with ANY relationship regardless of whether or not a VYM is involved. If you are both getting something positive out of the relationship, go for it. Don't close the door on something just because he is young.

gl :)