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Michele
01-22-2006, 12:24 PM
I read this story this morning and thought it was so cute....

A Dog Man Gets a Cat
I never liked cats much. Then Mother moved into my barn.
By Jon Katz
Posted Monday, Jan. 16, 2006, at 10:16 AM ET


Before Mother, I was never much drawn to cats. They seemed slithery and remote. I have a farm, and cats didn't appear to be useful.

I am partial to working dogs—especially border collies and Labradors—that can herd sheep, fetch sticks, hike with me, cuddle on the sofa, and swim in nearby streams. I didn't really get having an animal you couldn't herd sheep or take a walk with.

Then the rats came. They invaded my farm last summer, especially the big barns. They were fat—at first, I mistook one for a rabbit—arrogant, and fearless. The farmers told me there was nothing much to be done: Rats, naturally drawn to farms, were smart, hardy, and tough to get rid of, especially with other animals around.

They had countless holes in stone walls and rotted silos to nest in. They figured out traps. And I couldn't spread poisons around a barnyard full of sheep, donkeys, chickens, and dogs. A farmer friend suggested a barn cat. He was about to weed out his own posse, and had one in mind for me, because she was used to dogs. She was young and scrawny and got her name—Mother—from her habit of caring for kittens, whether they were hers or not.

Where I live in upstate New York, barn cats are mythic. Elusive and reclusive, they prowl barns and pastures, sleep in haylofts, and make war on rodents and snakes.

They die often and—frequently—brutally, from disease and neglect, from attacks by predators like foxes and coyotes, from target practice by kids or hunters, or from the bites of rabid raccoons. They get hit by cars or, in the worst cases, waste away from starvation and exposure. When their numbers grow—few are spayed or neutered—they often are shot. Some of the softer farmers put heat lamps in their barns or let their barn cats into basements and mudrooms on subzero nights. Most don't.

Did I need a barn cat?

Rose, my 2-year-old border collie, ran the farm and didn't like cats. And a farm needs the right balance of animals. But the rat population was booming. So, with many misgivings, I agreed to take Mother. My neighbor drove her over in a cardboard box, a stringy, mottled brown and black creature that looked the worse for wear. I had the distinct feeling that if I hadn't taken her, she wasn't headed for a shelter.

Mother was surprisingly friendly. She took to me right away; she loved to be stroked and scratched, and she purred when she saw me. She was always ravenous and seemed astounded by the cans of cat food I ferried out to her in the barn. She was also instantly businesslike, scoping out the rats and the mice the second she arrived.

I took her to the vet and had her spayed, then put a collar on her, so strangers would know she was owned.

Rose was not hospitable. The minute Mother returned from the vet and entered the pasture, the dog roared down the pasture hill to drive off this mangy intruder.

It was one of Rose's rare mistakes. Mother was not like the other animals Rose had encountered and dominated. The cat sat perfectly still until the charging border collie was about 4 inches away, and then she calmly turned and raked the dog's nose with one sharp swipe of her paw. Rose is not one to make the same mistake twice. From that point on, even when Mother was right in front of her, Rose pretended not to notice her.

Mother staked out the barn and the barnyard right away, sashaying back and forth at the pasture gate, taunting the dogs, strutting her stuff, almost daring anybody to start something. Nobody did. Certainly not my two yellow Labs, who had witnessed the trouncing of Rose.

From Mother's first day, the rodent carcasses began piling up. She left the first right by my back door—it was enormous. Daily offerings followed. This caused accompanying minor problems when my delighted, wagging Labs began bringing the corpses into the house. The pest population plummeted. I was impressed. This cat delivered.

Greeting Mother quickly became part of my morning routine. When I left a bowl of dry kibble in an empty stable, Mother was always waiting for me, purring, meowing, and circling. In the evening, I sometimes brought some tuna. I put out a de-icer bucket so that she would always have water, even on bitter cold nights. I learned one thing. As with dogs, sheep, and donkeys, food went a long way toward establishing a good relationship.

Mother seemed quite content in the barn. Unlike a dog, she had no need for or interest in sharing my life or staying by my side. Yet we had a real understanding. As winter approached, I worried about the cold even though Mother was filling out and growing a thicker coat. With a friend's help, I made her a sort of igloo in the barn loft—a cozy construction of hay bales with a fuzzy blanket underneath.

Now that the deep winter is here, I sometimes wonder if I should keep Mother in the barn or let her into the house. Every dog I've ever had would come inside. But Mother doesn't seem to care. She's happy in her space and happy to leave me in mine. She is willing to accept occasional gifts—such as cans of tuna fish or cups of warm milk—but she doesn't need my charity.

Every now and then she disappears for a day or two, and I go out to the barn anxiously, calling her name. You cannot, I realize, have it both ways. A barn cat is not really a pet. In the tradition of barn cats, she eventually reappears, and no one knows where she's been or why.

I have not seen a live rat for months now. Once in a while, when I take out the garbage or leave the dogs behind to stroll under a full moon, Mother appears at my side and strolls along with me. "Hey, Mother," I say. She never looks directly at me. She walks with her tail up, her eyes sweeping the darkness. Sometimes, I think she is keeping me company. And sometimes I get the feeling she is watching over me.

Harrison
01-22-2006, 12:51 PM
Great story, Michele. :D Cats are cool!

whiterose
01-22-2006, 05:41 PM
Cats are awesome. Thanks for sharing that with us. :)

Chatterbox
01-22-2006, 09:38 PM
Thanks for sharing, Michelle! Man, can that guy write!

Patricia
01-23-2006, 02:01 AM
Awwwww! :)

lady_p
01-23-2006, 02:07 AM
cats rule!

Faith47
01-23-2006, 02:41 PM
As Chatter said, that guy knows how to write! :D

What a sweet story.
Thanks for sharing :)

DaBollocks
01-24-2006, 08:30 AM
Cool!! I have a kitty story!! I take care of a cat who was left behind by a neighbor who committed suicide @ her boyfriends house!! Wacky story there....anywho I was friends with the kitty before then & when they were cleaning out her apt I said who's taking the cat? And they all just looked @ me & I said, Oh geez!! So I started taking care of her & named her Marilyn!! She's an outdoor cat for sure and never really wants to come into my pad. She visits but never stays. After hurricane Wilma we had miceys all over the place and she piled up the daily offering of mice corpses!! A lovely sight!! Proud kitty she was!! She's always there to greet me when I get home. And only comes to my door when she's hungry!! I too have changed my perception of kitties because of Marilyn!! They are unusual creatures indeed!! ;)

Patricia
01-24-2006, 08:39 AM
I am sure, DB, that with time and coaxing, Marilyn will come into your place. I hope the weather is not too cold where you live. Maybe a little catnip would lure her in. Then, just ignore her and let her explore. You are a good person to have rescued her. Poor kitty must be really freaked out and feel abandoned.

Michele
01-24-2006, 08:49 AM
Im glad you all liked the story. I used to be only a dog person but after getting my daughter her first cat two years ago, who is just the most awesome cat around, and then getting my son's cat, who needs some attitude adjusting....but is still beautiful. I cant see myself without cats ever again :D

Still luv my dogs though.......they are such goof balls! I miss my Mollie though!

Michele
01-24-2006, 08:52 AM
Im gonna post one about a dog who adopts a baby squirrel next....

(I love my pet stories....)

Michele
01-24-2006, 09:01 AM
As Chatter said, that guy knows how to write! :D

What a sweet story.
Thanks for sharing :)

Heya Faith.....how you been gal?

Faith47
01-24-2006, 11:39 AM
Heya Faith.....how you been gal?


Hey girl,

Gal here doing ok. Thanks for noticing me :D
I wondered if anyone really cared whether I was dead or alive :o

Michele
01-24-2006, 09:08 PM
I certainly did notice you missing....

I was gonna post a thread the other day asking if anyone had heard from you because you hadnt posted in awhile.

Also wondering how YellowRose & Paris are....

Anyone know?

CabinFever
01-24-2006, 09:29 PM
Oh guys, this story reminded me of my little kitty that I had to put down this weekend. He was a half-dead stray when I took him in. He was very very sick and had a huge hernia, all sorts of infections etc. I fixed him up, had him neutered etc, but he was always sick. We tried course after course of antibiotics and everything else I could think of, but he never kicked his respiratory infection.

I'm more of a dog person than a cat person, but he adopted me and I couldn't help but love him. And he loved my dogs - especially the bigger one that all cats are typically afraid of. I think it was because when they first met, the kitten's eyes were swolled closed and he couldn't see, but my dog sniffed and licked him and was so excited that he could actually investigate a cat, that they became fast friends.

Anyhow, my little Zack thought he was a dog after that. He went on hikes with us, came when called, loved riding in the car and meowed his greeting to me when I came home. He wasn't afraid of anything and when I helped with sheep shearing at my parents' farm, he was right in there investigating. The shearer asked me what on earth was wrong with the cat.

He was an inspiration and was such a happy cat, especially considering how sick he often was. Actually that's how he got his name - I named him "Prozac" (Zack for short) because he was soooo happy and easy-going, even when he was very sick. I wish I could have spent more time with him (he was only 3 years old), but given how sick he would get, it's probably for the better.

Faith47
01-25-2006, 08:50 AM
I certainly did notice you missing....

I was gonna post a thread the other day asking if anyone had heard from you because you hadnt posted in awhile.

Also wondering how YellowRose & Paris are....

Anyone know?


I dont know about Yellowrose and Paris either.
I know Yellowrose had a lot happening in her life. Lets hope things are better.

Chatterbox
01-25-2006, 12:48 PM
Oh, Cabin Fever, I'm so sorry you lost your little friend. It sounds like he was one cool cat! (What a great name, Zach - short for Prozac because he was so happy.) You did such a good thing, taking him in when no one else would, nursing him back to health, and spending all that money. You gave him multiple second chances to live and I'm sure that had a lot to do with his attitude and his enjoyment of every minute that he had. I'm sorry it didn't last longer for both of you.

Big, big, big sympathy hug, and a big, big, big you-done-good hug.

yellowrose
01-26-2006, 02:31 PM
HI everyone. I am doing really great. I have been moving to my new little "cottage" which I love. I don't have Internet installed yet so it will be awhile before I will be back online regularly. Thanks for missing me!
Hugs to ya'll.
Barbara

CabinFever
01-26-2006, 09:30 PM
Hi Yellowrose!!!!!!! Great to see you and hear that things are going well!! Take care, and hope to see you around more when you get internet!

Chatter...thanks for the hugs. It's so tough missing him, and today I got a card from the vets that made me cry all over again. They worked really hard with me to try to get him better. Ugh. I hate losing friends - especially animals - they are the best friends you can have.


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