Ahhhhh!

Okay well I need some advice, very badly!
My OM has an ex girlfriend, she is middle aged and has been very jealous/threatened of our relationship from the beginning. It started about a year ago when we first got together she would call him ALL the time on his cel phone. No big deal, I can handle that. She would also call the home number so I just gave him the phone everytime she called. He would tell her things were over between them and that he and I were in love etc. So then we didn't hear from her for awhile and life was great. Then she started calling my mom in Canada and leaving obscene messages on her machine " tell that @$#% daughter of yours to get her @$%^ back to Canada! he loves me not her, he's going to marry me..." and on and on. Needless to say my mother was very disturbed. So then she started dating again and we wouldn't here from her for months. She called months later and my OM told her we were engaged and please leave us alone. I blocked her number from our home phone and she would call screaming and say that she was calling from a calling card, and that if I thought I could stop her that she would keep buying another card everyday (she's 44, but she acts like a five year old brat). So we hadn't heard from her in awhile, and then out of the blue she calls my OM up, begging for money. She owns her own business and every chance she gets she talks about how successful she is so I don't get her need to ask for money. Anyway my OM said no that he wasn't going to help her and that she would have to get on with her life. So now it's like she's blackmailing him by calling more than ever, she called my mom's place last night. I talked to the police but there's nothing they can do since she calls Canada from Texas.
I love my OM so much, but this is just so stressful on our relationship. I don't know what to do anymore and I am so tired of her harrassing me and him and my family. She's pure evil. How do I deal?????? Everytime the phone rings, I'm on edge! :(

Just a question -- how on earth would she get your mother's number in Canada?

He started calling me before they broke up over a year ago now. She took all the phone numbers off his home phone before my OM and I had even met, including friends, business associates, acquaintences and my mom's number (where I was living at the time). She called everybody, even though she didn't know them. She called his friend's office numbers, spoke to their secretaries and accused them of having an affair with my OM. She called married woman who's husbands had leased part of his ranch and accused them of sleeping with him. Some of the people she called had only spoken with my OM once in the context of business and yet she called to scream at them and harrass them. So I guess I can't feel to special because her rage isn't isolated at me, she's made alot of people extremely mad.

I am not joking around. This woman sounds like she is pure hell and will only create more havoc for you and your boyfriend. I would suggest contacting the authorities about her behavior, and then see if she can get booked for some direly needed counseling.