I need help - I feel like an impotent!

Hi Everyone,

I'm 23 and my OW is 42 and we are together for about a year, but the problem I have is not age related (as most of our problems).

Last time I've noticed that my sex drive decreased dramatically even so badly I couldn't make love to my woman and I don't understand it. I remember times when it was very intensive, I could do it 3-5 times a day and now I can't. Sexuality is a huge part of our relationship and it confuses her very much and as well as me. I still find her very attractive and I think she's very beautiful. I feel I love her, we've got history and we went through many things together. It would be hard to live without her. I'm just afraid that the chemistry have gone away without my consent and I don't know what to do. I'm not ready to say goodbye :( !

Delboy

1) After a year, it is natural for sex to be less frequent

2) The more you worry, the worse it will get.


Not brilliant as guidance to your dilemma (won't say problem, because unless you have anything physically wrong down there, it is a glitch) and I'm pretty sure others here will chip in.

Perhaps this is one for the gents?

I'm just afraid that the chemistry have gone away without my consent and I don't know what to do. I'm not ready to say goodbye

So....you think you can't get it up because the "chemistry" is gone?

So, in your mind, you feel that its her, hence, the goodbyes? And, with someone else you would have chemistry?


sora