who has the biggest age gap?

hi all,

i thought it would be fun to see who has the biggest age gap in this forum.

i am 22 and i love a 51 year old man = 19 years.

melanie.

Great Thread.

I am 32 and OM is 67 = 35 years

hi all,

i thought it would be fun to see who has the biggest age gap in this forum.

i am 22 and i love a 51 year old man = 19 years.

melanie.

Unless I lost my basic math skills, that is actually 29.

I'm no where in your league with 11.Lol :D

I'm 22 and my OM is 46= 24 years.

And I'm pregnant....lol :p

I'm in a 23 year agegap

And I'm pregnant....lol :p

How did that happen?

I'm 22, bf is 42, so 20 years... although in between our birthdays (mine is first) 19 years... :)

How did that happen?

Um....Do I really need to explain that? :p

All I can say is that It must have been ment to happen because I wasn't even supposed to be able to have kids and we were cautious. So who knows.....

Immaculate conception. You are the next Madonna. :)

who has the biggest age difference?

I'm 22, he's 51 = 29 yrs

Deja Vu all over again.

im 20 and he is 49! so we have 29 years apart. but i dont care, cos i love him!!!!

Probably not much help, but the 17 year gap does not seem so bad anymore. I am the only one who knows about it.

I'm 20 and my hubby is 50, so we have a 30 year gap. It sounds like alot, but when we're together we dont notice it at all. Most people who see us dont think the gap is as large as it actually is.

Im 20 Hes 38= 18 Years!!!

Im 20 Hes 38= 18 Years!!!

Almost the same as me and Mandy (not real, but I refuse to pretend this is Algebra by using single letters), I hope she will be as accepting as you seem to be.

As Long As Hes Good To Me I Have No Reason To Doubt!!! :)

I am in a very similar situation, I love her to death. I am just not sure that is enough.

who has the biggest age difference?

I'm 22, he's 51 = 29 yrs

Unless you've found someone new in the past day or two, you're not a couple. He is married and still living with his wife. Hello!

Kelley,

Leave it to you to notice those little details, lol....

We have a 33 year GAP. *Is this a contest*?????

A contest? Not quite. Besides, I am not looking for older women anyway. I prefer women in their 20s and 30s.

he is in the process of divorcing, and not cuz of me- actually 0% cuz of me!

I merged the two threads... :)

I will be 23 in August and he has just turned 43!
We are GREAT together!

I'm 32 he's 61=29 diff.

Been married 4 years+. We want to get pregnant.

I'm 34 my man is 57 - so in love ;)

Hi there,

Massimo (me) 40
Mara 22

CONSIDERING getting ummm "involved"
18 year gap

he is in the process of divorcing, and not cuz of me- actually 0% cuz of me!

He already filed before he began a sexual relationship with you? I'm surprised you left that detail out in your other thread. It's a biggie. I feel sad for you. You are young, still live at home and this guy is bad news but you haven't experienced life enough yet to know it. You've even said you know he's probably talking to other women online besides you in a sexual way. If you have an ounce of self respect, then tell that jerk to leave you alone until he's actually filed and moved out. Please, please, please don't delude yourself into thinking your "relationship" is somehow different from what everyone else in the world who's been where you are has gone through. Sadly, someday you'll learn that it really isn't. And, in the meantime, please don't claim to be a couple.

Every good relationship deserves a better start than this. :(

*sigh* well, you're certainly not the first person who'll ever go through the heartbreak of what lies ahead and you probably won't be the last, either.

He already filed before he began a sexual relationship with you? I'm surprised you left that detail out in your other thread. It's a biggie. I feel sad for you. You are young, still live at home and this guy is bad news but you haven't experienced life enough yet to know it. You've even said you know he's probably talking to other women online besides you in a sexual way. If you have an ounce of self respect, then tell that jerk to leave you alone until he's actually filed and moved out. Please, please, please don't delude yourself into thinking your "relationship" is somehow different from what everyone else in the world who's been where you are has gone through. Sadly, someday you'll learn that it really isn't. And, in the meantime, please don't claim to be a couple.

Every good relationship deserves a better start than this. :(

*sigh* well, you're certainly not the first person who'll ever go through the heartbreak of what lies ahead and you probably won't be the last, either.


^^^^^^Huh?^^^^^ How is that any of your business? What do you care? :confused:

I'm 18, he's 25.

We're not a couple (will be someday, I hope)...so 7 years. Not so bad I guess.

I have a 35 year age gap.....did I win?....lol.

^^^^^^Huh?^^^^^ How is that any of your business? What do you care? :confused:

I care because this is a website that nurtures healthy relationships. This person is looking for support for her relationship with a married man who lives with his wife. I wouldn't know about it if she didn't share that info herself. I strongly believe extramarital affairs are wrong on many levels. They are lacking in integrity, they are relationships that are founded in deceit, and I would be spineless to stand by and say "oh well, c'est la vie, c'est la guerre" when I see something that is so morally wrong being treated as if it were a good thing.

im 20 and he's 49. we're different in age and culture but we love each other!!!!

17 years.. I am 31 and he is 47

17 yrs

I'm 22, he's 39

I want to know what CeeJay wins for her 35 yr age gap.

I've recently gone from a 29 yr gap to a 12 yr age gap. And, no, he didn't get younger. I decided to leave the first relationship, if it could be called a relationship at all and just innocently :p fell into another one that is starting out very good, though he is hundreds of miles away, so I've also got me an LDR now. (Still better than the last.) Does 12 yrs even count though?

Mrs Hedgehog---
I Totally Understand Where You Are Coming From On This One...yet Then Again I Know Where The Other One Is Coming From.

Now Don't Judge...but My Relationship With My Om Started Just Like Hers Did...he Was Married, EVERY SITUATION IS DIFFERENT. HE WAS MARRIED FOR LESS THAN A YEAR AND WAS FORCED INTO A MARRIAGE THAT HE DIDN'T WANT. I Know Its Wrong And If He Was Really Happy He Wouldn't Have Looked Else Where. But I Believe That As Long As You Are Openly Honest With Each Other And Not Play Games Then You Should Be Fine.
Everything We Do Is A Learning Expeirence!! We Had Our Ups And Downs But We've Been Together For 2 Years!! I Think It All Depends On How You Approach The Situation.

Have An Open Mind!!!

Well, my wife is 22 and I am 35. I know I won't win any award for that on this site. Love knows no bounds though. I hope happiness is present in all of your lives. :)

Probably not much help, but the 17 year gap does not seem so bad anymore. I am the only one who knows about it.

I'm with you on the 17 yr gap. I just turned 26 and he's turning 43.

Still waiting on my prize....... waiting patiently.

What did I win for the age gap?....lol

Still waiting on my prize....... waiting patiently.

What did I win for the age gap?....lol


Its in the works..... ;) :p

CeeJay,

Read this thread:

http://www.agelesslove.com/boards/showthread.php?t=7584

It's a little old, but Muse comes back once in a awhile. She was 21 and her bf was 69. She already got the prize, right, Mera? :p

I'm with you on the 17 yr gap. I just turned 26 and he's turning 43.

At least, I am not alone. I have mixed feelings. I do not look like I am mature enough to be her father. :) I fear I could become a surrogate father figure. :(

Unless you've found someone new in the past day or two, you're not a couple. He is married and still living with his wife. Hello!

*snickers*

I don't usually read this section of the board, thanks for keeping me up to speed ;)

OK Bubbleee! Them's is fighten wordes..... :) .

Your post about Muse says she "WAS"....are we talkin' past or present? If she is still in it, I will publicly claim defeat..............BUT...........if not......well, .....then......

MerAlove will set the record straight. :)

But seriously, thanks for the note on Muse...that's fantastic!

Wow, I didnt know there were so many couples here with 30+ year age gaps. I thought we were pretty much at the upper end of the age difference here. Nice to know we're not alone. 30 years and 2 weeks apart, been married for 4 months, going to try for a baby in september.

Wow, a 30 year gap and married. How did your parents take it?

CeeJay,

Read this thread:

http://www.agelesslove.com/boards/showthread.php?t=7584

It's a little old, but Muse comes back once in a awhile. She was 21 and her bf was 69. She already got the prize, right, Mera? :p


Well Bubble is right... Muse still Pops inhere and there and she was involved with this man... HOWEVER, they aren't together anymore....... depends on how we look at it.... CEeJay definatly doesn't hold the record here.. However maybe she currently does...??? LOL

Let's take a vote.
Since Muse is no longer in the 48 yr age gap, I say we go with whoever is currently in a relationship with the biggest gap.
So CeeJay, you get my vote. (not that it will matter one way or another, but it's the thought that counts.) :D
I want to know what the prize is!

Wow, a 30 year gap and married. How did your parents take it?
My parents didnt like the idea much at first, but they know he's a great guy who really does love me. They've gotten more used to him now.

Let's take a vote.
Since Muse is no longer in the 48 yr age gap, I say we go with whoever is currently in a relationship with the biggest gap.
So CeeJay, you get my vote. (not that it will matter one way or another, but it's the thought that counts.) :D
I want to know what the prize is!

Thanks Susan.....

My thoughts go to Muse. Its not always the easiest of relationships in such an age gap relation but the experience is like none other, no matter the time length.

Take care.

i'm 26 he's 55 = 29 years

melanie...your math is all off....LOL!!! You have 29 years difference...NOT 19....since you stated you are 22 and he is 51. You have one year on my love interest.....ours is 28....I'm the older one.

Valerie

I'm 32 he's 61=29 diff.

Been married 4 years+. We want to get pregnant.

If he is 61, that pretty much leaves me with no excuse.

He's 49 and I'm 19, so we're 30 years apart. He was my professor once, now we're dating.

He is 64 and I am 25 = total age gap 39 yrs

My parents didnt like the idea much at first, but they know he's a great guy who really does love me. They've gotten more used to him now.

how did you convince your parent about marry him? --->or at least when they found out you go out with him?
im 20 and my OM is 49, last sunday i told my parents about him and my mom started to go crazy of the fact he's so much older than me -29years- (i even lied that he's 'only' 25 years older). and now im in trouble.....

He is 64 and I am 25 = total age gap 39 yrs


CeeJay... You were beat!! :( ;)

I am 52; my ym is 19, that's um, 33 years? It's funny because everything I read the man was older. I'd really like to know who can beat that. :p

how did you convince your parent about marry him? --->or at least when they found out you go out with him?
im 20 and my OM is 49, last sunday i told my parents about him and my mom started to go crazy of the fact he's so much older than me -29years- (i even lied that he's 'only' 25 years older). and now im in trouble.....
My Mom flipped out when I first told her. But, I got them to meet him and try to get to know him alittle. After spending alittle bit of time with him they realized what a sweetheart he is and how much he obviously loves me. Once they realized he would do anything for me and wasnt going to kill me and leave me in a ditch (or anything else crazy parent minds could think of), they started to accept him more. He's a likeable guy, my mom and dad get along with him as a person which helped them accept him more as my SO.

[SIZE=2]Well here is one for you. I am 29 years of age and I have been married to a woman 58 for over 4 years. Although our interests have divided us we will seporate on very good terms. I would like to find someone in that age group again to spend an indefinate amount of time with. I have a very close friend who is 50 but she lives a little over an hour away and does not want a "Close" relationship with any man regardless. I am strongly attracted to older women and have chosen older women over younger all but once in my life, while old enough to have a lot to offer to them. I have previously dated women in their 40's mid to late and I even have a page on agematch.com under the tag Aris_One.

Okay This HAS To Be Top!

Man, 33, Marries Woman, 104 May 2, 2006 10:18 a.m. EST Andrea Moore - All Headline News Staff Reporter Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia (AHN) - According to a news report, a 33-year-old man in northern Malaysia has married a 104-year-old woman, saying mutual respect and friendship had turned to love. The Harian Metro reports the marriage is Muhamad Noor Che Musa's first marriage and his wife's 21st. Muhamad, an ex-army serviceman, says he found peace and a sense of belonging after meeting Wook Kundor, whom he said he initially sympathized with because she was childless, old and alone. The report did not say if any of Wook's previous 20 husbands are still alive. Malaysian Muslim men are allowed by their religion to take up to four wives at a time, but reports of women who marry more than once are rare. Muslim women do not practice polygamy.

71YEAR GAP! :eek:

http://www.allheadlinenews.com/articles/7003404854

Since Muse is no longer with her OM, the grand prize goes to...... (drumroll)....

ang3lic, with her 39 year gap!

She wins a Club-39 keyring!

Actually, whatever happened to "Karen24"? At 24 and 75 (a 51-year difference) she would be the winner! If she's still out there (and if she's real).

i'm 20, and he's 40 => 20 years of age gap
but I can hardly feel the difference cos we connect so well with each other :)

Since Muse is no longer with her OM, the grand prize goes to...... (drumroll)....

ang3lic, with her 39 year gap!

She wins a Club-39 keyring!

CeeJay is pouting in the corner.........no prize.... *looking down, kicking the dirt*.... :)

Well no matter the age difference we all have something very precious at our finger tips........ the love and compassion of another incredible being.

Im 55 wife is 18, have 6 month old daughter... :D

Im 55 wife is 18, have 6 month old daughter...
Wow. You may not win the prize in number of years difference, but you probably have the biggest geometric age gap, being 3.05 times her age! You get a Club-3.05x keyring! Haha!

I bet the baby is precious!!!

Im 55 wife is 18, have 6 month old daughter... :D

Wow, more than triple. I am very impressed (as if that meant anything). :p

Muhamad Noor Che Musa still and his wife still have Geezer and his wife beat on the age ratio - 3.15x. But of course, Mr. Musa is not on this forum, so he doesn't count.

Actually, the prize goes to Glen "Scotty" Wolfe of Blythe, California, who made Daisy Delgada his wife in 1989 when he was 81 and she 18 -- 4.5x. He and Muhamad Noor Che Musa's 104-yr. old wife have something in common. Daisy was "Scotty"'s 27th wife, putting him in the Guiness Book for "world's most married man". Muhamad's wife has been married 21 times.

I'm 21 and I have been dating a 61 year old women for a year and a half.

I'm 21 and I have been dating a 61 year old women for a year and a half.


wow..how did that happen?

hi all,

i thought it would be fun to see who has the biggest age gap in this forum.

i am 22 and i love a 51 year old man = 19 years.

melanie.

wait, isn't that 29 years?

well my man and i are only 5 years apart.. not much but it is alot when you are in your 20's.

It's alot when you're in your teens. To say that 5 years is a big deal when you're over 21 is laughable to me. But hey, to each his/her own!

29 years for us - I'm 26 he's 55

hi all,

i thought it would be fun to see who has the biggest age gap in this forum.

i am 22 and i love a 51 year old man = 19 years.

melanie.

51 - 22 = 29 , right? maybe a typing mistake ;)

I'm 23 and I love a 41 year old sexy man :D

EDIT:

LOL, now I feel dumb, I noticed the age gaps and mine feels like nothing now! Plus someone had already pointed the mistake in the thread.... :rolleyes: *chuckles a little more*

I am 30, he's 63 - 33 years. Been together seven years, married for five. Do I get joint second prize?

I am 25 and my boyfriend is 63. 38 yr AG.
The Age Gap only gets brought up by women around his age when they meet me for the first time. I don't understand why they feel threatened, but oh well. This site is a wonderful source of support for those of us who aren't sure yet how to respond to the hostility that we often encounter. Thank you for what you do!

My husband is 28 years older than me and a perfect match. ;)

im 19 and he is 34. My family thinks its stupid and he doesnt want anything to do with them. i feel like he doesnt want me to meet his friends or family. we dont hang out with other people together . it bugs me out i dont know what to do . but i love him , hes a good dude

24 years here. I'm 33 and Bob is 57. We're also in a LDR.

kind of an old thread but i haven't visited in a couple months and thought i should claim the silver...

me - 23
him - 59
Age Gap = 36 years (technically 35 years and 11 months)

Darn it!..........Now Im at bronze level...........Do I still get a prize??.......

Lol I feel stupid posting but...7 years.

He's 25
I'm 18.

That is, if/when? we get together.

Darn it!..........Now Im at bronze level...........Do I still get a prize??.......

CeeJay, you crack me up! What is your age gap again?

Mine is 33 years.

And thanks, SummerBob, for being the statistician on this;)

Lol I feel stupid posting but...7 years.

He's 25
I'm 18.

That is, if/when? we get together.

eh, don't feel stupid, my guy is but TWO years younger than me lol.....we can be the "pipsqueak club" ;)

CeeJay, you crack me up! What is your age gap again?

Mine is 33 years.

And thanks, SummerBob, for being the statistician on this;)


Hi Bubbleee!

My age gap is 35 years.

Im 32, he is 67

I have been waiting patiently for the last ..oh......two months for a prize but it seems as though I am now getting beat out....am I even in the top 5 these days?

Don't tell me I have to trade him in for an older model?..... (I just can't do it!)

I'm 20 and my (sort of) guy is 39 = 19 years.


When I say "(sort of) guy" I don't mean he's having sexual identity crisis. I mean he's not officially my S.O!

I'm 22 and my OM is 46= 24 years.

And I'm pregnant....lol :p

Well I'll flip it in the opposite direction.

I'm 33 and he's 19 and I was due yesterday, lol. :D

Only 14 years between us but boy the situation alone can fry some eyebrows off. Thank goodness the people who matter, my family and his are completely supportive of us.

I'm talking to this girl who's 19 so, it'll be 20 year age gap if we become together. It's still in the early stage, we just met!:D

The gap between my boyfriend and I is 15 years. I am 19 and he is 34, going on 14 :)

HE WAS MARRIED FOR LESS THAN A YEAR AND WAS FORCED INTO A MARRIAGE THAT HE DIDN'T WANT.


gee havent heard THAT one before lol

hmmm
i wonder when girls are like 19-20 with 60/70 year old men
yes alot of women are mature but woah i wonder if there is a issue there?

I am 43, Stephy is 21...22 year gap.

I'm 18, he's 38, 20 year gap. Not so noticeable as you think it would be when we're together, but when you look at us we do have the father/daughter look about us :o! Means nothing to me though, I got over it pretty quickly :D

I might have you all beat...
I'm 25 and he's 62=37 year difference.

Kelley,

Leave it to you to notice those little details, lol....

We have a 33 year GAP. *Is this a contest*?????

There is 33 years difference between my husband and I also. We have been married 2 1/2 years and have two beautiful children together. I am also starting a yahoo group for women who are married to older men with at least 25 years difference. If you like come check it out PM me for the link. I would love to have some of you come join me in my group I just started it the other day and I am hoping to get some members.

Thanks
Persiancat67

hmmm
i wonder when girls are like 19-20 with 60/70 year old men
yes alot of women are mature but woah i wonder if there is a issue there?

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