wyn_oi
04-24-2006, 08:55 AM
im 20 years and he's 49. we met in last november, in a very natural way. we were in the bar, he starred at me, and i starred at him sometimes. then night comes i danced closer to him. then suddenly we danced together, and kissed. its our first meet. i didnt believe in love at first sight before i met him. i always thought love at first sight is silly. but it happend to me!
he's brazilian who works in Jakarta. and im a Indonesian born chinese. so, as you can see, we're very different. so that's one of the cause of i stepped away in December to February. because of the interfere of some family and my mom. (she actually didnt mind but then some family start to talk to her and she changed her mind) and by the time, i feel young and that was a big step of going out with somebody that old. i was scarred. but when i stepped away (by the time, he went back to brazil for christmas) i feel very sad and empty.
Then... around mid march, we meet each other again, and until now, our relationship is going stronger. we know each other better than before. we share thought. i feel very happy with him, secure, and i see future with him. i think he's the one!!!
I really want to introduce him to my mom. but how? i dont know what my mom will think about him. if negative, i dont want them pushing me away from him anymore. and most of all, she cant speak english. both my parents cant!!
should i tell about him now, or wait until June (my aunty who live in US will come, and she speaks english--- at least my OM can talk to her) - me and my aunty will be the translator. but im afraid that my aunty will interfere my mom with his opinion.
I dont know... i really want to be open with my mom. i dont like hiding things from her... should i wait?
please help me... what do you think...
he's brazilian who works in Jakarta. and im a Indonesian born chinese. so, as you can see, we're very different. so that's one of the cause of i stepped away in December to February. because of the interfere of some family and my mom. (she actually didnt mind but then some family start to talk to her and she changed her mind) and by the time, i feel young and that was a big step of going out with somebody that old. i was scarred. but when i stepped away (by the time, he went back to brazil for christmas) i feel very sad and empty.
Then... around mid march, we meet each other again, and until now, our relationship is going stronger. we know each other better than before. we share thought. i feel very happy with him, secure, and i see future with him. i think he's the one!!!
I really want to introduce him to my mom. but how? i dont know what my mom will think about him. if negative, i dont want them pushing me away from him anymore. and most of all, she cant speak english. both my parents cant!!
should i tell about him now, or wait until June (my aunty who live in US will come, and she speaks english--- at least my OM can talk to her) - me and my aunty will be the translator. but im afraid that my aunty will interfere my mom with his opinion.
I dont know... i really want to be open with my mom. i dont like hiding things from her... should i wait?
please help me... what do you think...