Native_one
05-05-2006, 11:47 AM
IN the area of Lexington, KY
Without the grounding of common interests, and a genuine friendship-what can grow..?? Regardless of the type of relationship I don't beleive it is far to put that kinda of pressure on someone or lead with expectations. Things should come along with no pretenses and I think that is the way the true selves of the people will be discovered. Besides its too easy to put things in a box or compartmentalize things about someone. Whos list of the right person actually works, & once its there are you ready for the other person to find you are not enough check marks on their own..??
Then there is also the factor of time; With money, without, in a hurry, plenty of time, in a variety of social settings and the EX-Factors are all something that take time to evolve. There is no way of knowing how the other person will react until there guard is down and they react from the heart. With no intention of impressing or looking good for the other person.
Just a thought from a 29, y/m who likes older woman and has had a few experiances to share.
Without the grounding of common interests, and a genuine friendship-what can grow..?? Regardless of the type of relationship I don't beleive it is far to put that kinda of pressure on someone or lead with expectations. Things should come along with no pretenses and I think that is the way the true selves of the people will be discovered. Besides its too easy to put things in a box or compartmentalize things about someone. Whos list of the right person actually works, & once its there are you ready for the other person to find you are not enough check marks on their own..??
Then there is also the factor of time; With money, without, in a hurry, plenty of time, in a variety of social settings and the EX-Factors are all something that take time to evolve. There is no way of knowing how the other person will react until there guard is down and they react from the heart. With no intention of impressing or looking good for the other person.
Just a thought from a 29, y/m who likes older woman and has had a few experiances to share.