LindsayLou
05-05-2006, 02:53 PM
Hello Everyone -
My name is Lindsay... I found this site a little over a week ago and have had a good time reading some of your insights. I guess that I'm looking for a little bit of feedback from people who are in a OM/YW relationship.
I work in a very old church and we have contractors in to do various things day in and day out. The first time that I saw this man, we'll call him John, there was instant attraction. He's tall and handsome.... very intelligent... very friendly. Much like myself except for the tall and handsome part. :D Every time he'd come in, we'd exchange extremely flirtatious chat. Neither one of us ever mustered up enough courage to do anything beyond that, but the feeling is definitely there. So here recently, we started exchanging some e-mails. It started off with something innocent (mowing the grass) and an invitation to his house so he could teach me how. (Yes, I'm 20 years old and never mowed a lawn. I do believe that it's high time I learn.) It turned out that the weekend he was suggesting was bad, but then I got to thinking about it and it really was on the way to where I was going. The e-mail that received from him him said that he had this to do and that do to and he didn't know "if or when he was going to get to the grass for a while".
My question is, is what do you think of him (who is 53) inviting me to his house, but then changing his story? He doesn't have a girlfriend or a wife or anything... so that's already out. I don't know. I really like him a lot and I'm willing to go for the long haul... I don't know... ay yi yi... I'm lost!
Any thoughts?
Lindsay
My name is Lindsay... I found this site a little over a week ago and have had a good time reading some of your insights. I guess that I'm looking for a little bit of feedback from people who are in a OM/YW relationship.
I work in a very old church and we have contractors in to do various things day in and day out. The first time that I saw this man, we'll call him John, there was instant attraction. He's tall and handsome.... very intelligent... very friendly. Much like myself except for the tall and handsome part. :D Every time he'd come in, we'd exchange extremely flirtatious chat. Neither one of us ever mustered up enough courage to do anything beyond that, but the feeling is definitely there. So here recently, we started exchanging some e-mails. It started off with something innocent (mowing the grass) and an invitation to his house so he could teach me how. (Yes, I'm 20 years old and never mowed a lawn. I do believe that it's high time I learn.) It turned out that the weekend he was suggesting was bad, but then I got to thinking about it and it really was on the way to where I was going. The e-mail that received from him him said that he had this to do and that do to and he didn't know "if or when he was going to get to the grass for a while".
My question is, is what do you think of him (who is 53) inviting me to his house, but then changing his story? He doesn't have a girlfriend or a wife or anything... so that's already out. I don't know. I really like him a lot and I'm willing to go for the long haul... I don't know... ay yi yi... I'm lost!
Any thoughts?
Lindsay