Spicing up LTR

or keeping them spicy. :D
What do you do to keep that "fun" mode going? Or are there any special efforts that you make to keep things exciting? I would love to hear everybodys input.

I'll start with a few.
Brownbear and I email each other during the day with little "hot" notes back and forth.
I still "fix up" for him before he gets home in the evenings. It doesn't happen everyday. But most days I do. I mean like I used to when getting ready for a date. I never want him to think he's coming home to a haggie looking something! :eek:

So lets hear some of your spicing up tactics. ;)

I posted this in a couple places but - today I woke him up early and sent him to work with a smile on his face! :p

Even though I had the urge to go back to sleep, I fought it to add a little spice. It had been a while since I initiated like that and I'm always complaining that he doesn't do it as much anymore. Well, I realize that goes both ways!

Don't take each other for granted - like still caring how you look for your partner - is important!

We also try to have a date night. I have a HUGE lingere collection to spice things up, although it's not gonna fit for a while. LOL

The other day I wore a skirt with no panties (he loves skirts) and told him when he couldn't do anything about it til later. Kept him keyed up until he could jump me! LOL!

We also text message each other a lot and contantly keep up with the cuddling and I Love Yous. We've promised each other to "keep it fun" and to keep courting each other so we never take each other for granted.

We've only been together for 2 years, but kids and the day-to-day drudgery of home life can make it seem like a lot more! I'd love to hear more ideas, too!

ahh, Kristin, i will glean from your ideas ;)

I agree Kristen... YOu need to change things up a bit here and there....

And unfortunatly we do take each other for granted at times and we need to stop doing that and remember all those moments that made us fall in love with our SO's

I know my husband and I change things up whether it's sexually or just going out and doing things..

Our schedules are so opposite cause of Daycare so the time we do have we do like to devote to each other if possible.... and we do DIFFERENT things .. :)

I have stated in posts under my previous name, Dan Echo, that my lady and I haven't crossed the physical relationship line as of yet. In terms of unqualified fun, however, I think that the key is to always remember that you never have learned every special thing that there is to learn about your parner. That goes double is you're a gent, because ladies have inherently more specialness than us gents do.

As for the name changes, maybe I should just pick a symbol and be the YM formerly known as...

DanE