Copalot
06-16-2006, 08:32 PM
Hi everyone,
I am not exactly new I have been looking at this web site I guess close to a year now. The reading I have done has helped me so much and I thank everyone. It is time for me to share my story. I am 37yrs old and my fiance is 23. We have been together 16 months this coming Monday. We are to be married in 2mos. The day after he graduates from culinary school. We are so happy and we both have found our fairy tale hence the name copalot. That comes from my soon to be last name Cope (although I should have spelled it copealot). That will be the name of our new house we just purchased also. Although we have had our problems (mainly me fighting the age differnce) we are so in love and so happy. I have never been this happy in my life. He treats me like a queen. I was married for 18yrs and have 2 children ages 13 and 16. My children love my fiance. If you had told me a year ago where I would be today I never would have believed you. Me with someone 14yrs my junior living with his parents of all people while the people we bought our house from get packed up and moved (they are actually renting from me until the 22nd when I get to move in (long story they are military and I told them they could stay till they got orders) planning a wedding with his mom and him. People talk of maturity and let me tell you I have heard it here before how the younger guy is so much more mature than there ex, well it is the same here. I of course could go on and on. I still deal with the issues of age and trust (because of the ex) but my fiance tells me and gives me access to anything I need. He has been there for me everyday from the very beginning. Well I no I am dragging this out but I just wanted to tell a little bit about me.
Thanks everyone for helping me with my issues even if you did not know it.
I am not exactly new I have been looking at this web site I guess close to a year now. The reading I have done has helped me so much and I thank everyone. It is time for me to share my story. I am 37yrs old and my fiance is 23. We have been together 16 months this coming Monday. We are to be married in 2mos. The day after he graduates from culinary school. We are so happy and we both have found our fairy tale hence the name copalot. That comes from my soon to be last name Cope (although I should have spelled it copealot). That will be the name of our new house we just purchased also. Although we have had our problems (mainly me fighting the age differnce) we are so in love and so happy. I have never been this happy in my life. He treats me like a queen. I was married for 18yrs and have 2 children ages 13 and 16. My children love my fiance. If you had told me a year ago where I would be today I never would have believed you. Me with someone 14yrs my junior living with his parents of all people while the people we bought our house from get packed up and moved (they are actually renting from me until the 22nd when I get to move in (long story they are military and I told them they could stay till they got orders) planning a wedding with his mom and him. People talk of maturity and let me tell you I have heard it here before how the younger guy is so much more mature than there ex, well it is the same here. I of course could go on and on. I still deal with the issues of age and trust (because of the ex) but my fiance tells me and gives me access to anything I need. He has been there for me everyday from the very beginning. Well I no I am dragging this out but I just wanted to tell a little bit about me.
Thanks everyone for helping me with my issues even if you did not know it.