I took him back!

Sure dont know if it is the right thing to do . He called incesswently and lost 30 lbs in the 2 months of our seperation. I missed him and he was tenacious about me forgiving him. No infidelity problems but he "stretches the truth" about other things. I hate lying. Says he has changed. Apparently learned his lesson..Can one really change? what does anyone think? Hoping I am not being stupid.

I do think some people can change . . . maybe not their basic personalities, but behaviors. And I'm all about giving second chances. You need to make it clear that you will not tolerate less than the whole truth.

Good luck . . . I hope it works out for you. :)

Changing is learning and avery lesson involves a change, so yes, people change... they grow! Best wishes to you.

I agree with Peachy. People can learn from their mistakes and change course. How would we know they have changed if we don't give them a chance. But, I agree that you should be clear about what you won't tolerate and be prepared to deal with what will happen in the event he continues to lie to you. Best wishes to you!

Aww thats nice, keep an eye on the situation and be happy!

I took mine back too, then broke up, then went back, like a tennis match! :D

We're in couples counseling now. It's working great. If you have mistrust issues or think he still stretches the truth about stuff, I highly recommend it.