Fear

yeah, just as the title says, Fear.


I am totally petrified of leaving sora.. not as in like leaving her ending our marrage, more like going away on a 3 1/2 month business trip where seeing each other is next to impossible and phone calls are rare.

I have never been apart for my beloved sora.. not even for a weekend. I don't think i could take it. seeing as how i can't go a day without talking to her. Just seeing her, brings a smile to my face.

I need help guys, Support more than help.. how can i live without her, for 3 1/2 months, my families life will be so much better if i do this.... but.. i dunno


later,
Shin.

I know this will sound stupid because you are concerned, but 3 1/2 months is not a long time, you will survive, you will probably chat and voice, and be like any other LDR couple. You will make it! :)

You'll get through it by remaining focused on what a good thing you are doing for your family. And you both will work together on finding solutions for staying in contact, Shin. Trust me, somehow you make it work when geographic distance comes between you. It's not easy, but it can be done.

*hugs*

You can do it. I know it won't be easy. LDR can be taxing. Make the most out of the phone calls.

Write her. Even when you can't talk to her. Talk to her in your writing just as you would in your day to day conversations.

"Man! I saw the most amazing blue sky today. It made me think of the time..."

"Stupid jerks. Can you believe... "

Then, when you do get to talk to her, if you have time, you can read what you have written.

Or, save what was written until you can get back home and use the phone time for loving words and other things *wink* yeah, that's right.. I do mean that.

Anyway, you guys love each other. You worked hard to be together.

You can do this.

*hugs*

I dunno what to say. So heres a Big ((((HUG)))) from Brownbear and I.

*hugs*

You can do it. I know it won't be easy. LDR can be taxing. Make the most out of the phone calls.

Write her. Even when you can't talk to her. Talk to her in your writing just as you would in your day to day conversations.

"Man! I saw the most amazing blue sky today. It made me think of the time..."

"Stupid jerks. Can you believe... "

Then, when you do get to talk to her, if you have time, you can read what you have written.

Or, save what was written until you can get back home and use the phone time for loving words and other things *wink* yeah, that's right.. I do mean that.

Anyway, you guys love each other. You worked hard to be together.

You can do this.

*hugs*


Excellent advice. :)

hope i dont sound to rough.

first of all look at the positives, you have been given this gift of love and i hope you dont think that loves does not come without sacrafices.

3 and 1/2 months! give me a break, i wont live with Adam until 5 more months, we are married and have lived in different countries, including war zone for the past 3 1/2 years.

there is NOTHING i would not do for him or visa versa, sometimes you just gotta tough it out if it for the greater good for the relationship, distance does make the heart grow fonder and stronger.

there is story about man who had a complaint about his legs until he met a man who had no feet. there are always those around you that have experienced worse and have lived thru it and were grateful for just the possibility of love.

if you have found real love, you are ahead of the game, now it sounds like its time to get on with whatever you are doing so you can better both of your lives, good luck!