Wich lie you heard or said about sex?

Why Do We Lie About Sex?

Your sex partner may be telling you these health-threatening lies just to get you between the sheets.

What's even more surprising is that people who tend to tell these types of lies believe that their behavior is unacceptable.


Why do you lie or think other does about sex?

Since I am very selective, and always a friend FIRST, there has not been a problem with lies and surprises. Will usually get advice and facts about him from his friends as well. Just makes it safer. Also usually remain friends, even when the "romance" is over.

The most ridiculous lie is that of the early ejaculators

"oooops, sorry, you excite me too much ":rolleyes:

I won't come in your mouth.





Heard it AND said it.





ROFL




Ooops, sorry, was this supposed to be a serious discussion? :p

I won't come in your mouth.





Heard it AND said it.





ROFL




Ooops, sorry, was this supposed to be a serious discussion? :p
LOL Chatters,
A laugh is always welcome!

"Baby I love you".......

before...during....after......

Hey Anji, I'm going to allow this thread to remain here in Health Chat as long as we can keep the discussion strictly pertaining to sexual health issues. If it changes, I may have to move it to one of the Sexually Speaking sections.

Thanks everyone.

"Baby I love you".......

before...during....after......


After?!!!!!!

after sex...true......

Hey Anji, I'm going to allow this thread to remain here in Health Chat as long as we can keep the discussion strictly pertaining to sexual health issues. If it changes, I may have to move it to one of the Sexually Speaking sections.

Thanks everyone.

Alright,

I'll try to keep in the direction I mean it to be.

hugs~

Why practise safer sex?

If spontaneity is your aim, this guide might seem a little off-putting. It's not meant to discourage anyone from enjoying sex, but to help people to have healthier, happier and safer sex lives. Catching an infection is a lot more off-putting than taking care of yourself and your lover, so here are some measures to help you protect yourself from ALL sexually-transmitted infections. Many viral and bacterial sexually-transmitted infections are easier to catch and more common than HIV, which is why this guide is about more than just using a condom for penetrative sex.

Quick fact:
One million people are infected with STIs around the world every day of the year.

Precautions for greater safety

Penetrative vaginal sex - a condom should be put on before any genital contact, especially if the woman isn't using additional, reliable birth control. There are enough live sperm and germs at the tip of an erect penis to cause pregnancy or infection without penetration or ejaculation.

Penetrative anal sex - use a non-spermicidally-lubricated condom with extra water-based or silicone lubricant at all times. It's useful to wear an extra-strong condom, but more important to use sufficient lubrication, without which the condom is more likely to burst. Never move from anal to vaginal sex without changing the condom. If there's no spare condom handy, move from the vagina to the anus.

Foreplay - cover cuts, sores and other skin lesions on fingers with waterproof plasters or latex gloves, particularly during a menstrual period or if anal foreplay is involved. If you don't have latex gloves to hand, it's safer to use a non-spermicidally-lubricated condom over one or two fingers than bare hands. If you're not using protection and you're going to move on to vaginal foreplay, it's vital to wash your hands after anal foreplay.

Sex toys - if you're sharing toys, use the same level of protection as for penetrative sex. Wash toys thoroughly between partners. Keep whips, chains and other articles used during S&M (sadomasochistic) fetish foreplay for personal use, particularly if you draw blood (or body fluids containing blood) during use.

Masturbation - there's no risk of infection if you're alone and using unshared items, unless a disease from one part of the body infects another through poor hygiene technique. An unwashed finger, for example, can spread genital gonorrhoea or chlamydia to the eye. During masturbation with a partner, follow the guidelines for foreplay.

practice safe sex~

Many are dishonest at times in sexual situations. They lie about anything from their feelings to their sexual past.

However they tell more lies to casual sex partners than they do to partners in more-committed relationships, and the riskier their past the more likely they are to lie about it -- making for a good argument to use condoms and not trust what casual partners say.

"The most common lie that is lying about cheating in an established relationship."

Couples moving toward a closer relationship, and wanting to establish trust, tend to dispense too quickly with precautions like condoms, without being honest about whether the relationship is exclusive. "That's when the open communication is the most important, because that's when they potentially put themselves at the greatest risk."

be healthy~