skatergirl 08-23-2006, 09:01 PM sorry 2 swear...
well, he was calling and calling and then didn't show up one night we were supposed 2 get together. if he chickend out i don't care...just wanted you guy's to know what's up.
(this was the lame a** that helped me when my car broke down.)
sheila4pd 08-23-2006, 09:04 PM His loss...
skatergirl 08-23-2006, 09:08 PM His loss...
thanks so much...it wasn't like i was really into him it was just going 2 be nice (i thought) to go out with someone new after my other situation.
greeneyedgirl 08-23-2006, 09:23 PM gnat squishin' time!!!
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whiterose 08-23-2006, 09:24 PM I hate that when people stand someone else up. :mad: But, I think it speaks volumes about the kind of person that they are.
skatergirl 08-23-2006, 09:28 PM gnat squishin' time!!!
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LOL thanks for making me laugh Tracey!! ((hugs))
skatergirl 08-23-2006, 09:30 PM I hate that when people stand someone else up. :mad: But, I think it speaks volumes about the kind of person that they are.
thanks so much ((hugs))
now that i think about it, he was a whiney little wimp!! :D :p
kittylane 08-23-2006, 11:35 PM humm.. God must have protected me from prison, i have never really dated much but if this happened, i would be getting my bat out to squish this wimp bug, i have to much fire in my personality to suffer fools like this.
sheesh.
this is not a reason to look back tough, huggie kissey. ;)
on ward and upward, i must say that you do sound much stronger and thats sexy, use it on the next guy. i am prayin that its a decent dude for a change.
keep your strong side up and look as gorgeous as your pictures, believe me he is out there, the bugs are just fallin by the wayside so you will be available for Mr. right. Godbless and hugs.
hey, i don't even tolerate men being LATE for dates. if they can't have the respect for me to value my time, i don't value much about them.
i went out with one guy last year who was 20 minutes late for our first date, and even later (an hour) for our second. i was waiting alone outside a restaurant for him, and we didn't get to have dinner because we had to rush off to the event we were attending. i was incredibly annoyed. and i really LIKED this guy.....but i told him in no uncertain terms how rude i thought this behavior was.
he called me a few months later and asked if we could try again. i said, "sorry, don't think so." i already gave him two chances. i figured it was a pattern of behavior i didn't want to take on....
special K 08-24-2006, 02:59 AM ditto on "his loss" honey....
Wait for the good one now...he's on his way...
skatergirl 08-24-2006, 03:49 AM humm.. God must have protected me from prison, i have never really dated much but if this happened, i would be getting my bat out to squish this wimp bug, i have to much fire in my personality to suffer fools like this.
sheesh.
this is not a reason to look back tough, huggie kissey. ;)
on ward and upward, i must say that you do sound much stronger and thats sexy, use it on the next guy. i am prayin that its a decent dude for a change.
keep your strong side up and look as gorgeous as your pictures, believe me he is out there, the bugs are just fallin by the wayside so you will be available for Mr. right. Godbless and hugs.
awww Rina thanks so much honey!! much love!
skatergirl 08-24-2006, 04:01 AM hey, i don't even tolerate men being LATE for dates. if they can't have the respect for me to value my time, i don't value much about them.
i went out with one guy last year who was 20 minutes late for our first date, and even later (an hour) for our second. i was waiting alone outside a restaurant for him, and we didn't get to have dinner because we had to rush off to the event we were attending. i was incredibly annoyed. and i really LIKED this guy.....but i told him in no uncertain terms how rude i thought this behavior was.
he called me a few months later and asked if we could try again. i said, "sorry, don't think so." i already gave him two chances. i figured it was a pattern of behavior i didn't want to take on....
you know i didn't even think of it that way but you're right. sadly, (don't wanna admit this) but i've gotten used to "putting up" with stuff like this and worse.
why shoud i????
i mean, i was thinking tonight, maybe i need to be more like a guy, you know?
(sorry to generalize ageless genlemen, this doesn't include any of u!! :))
they want sex and don't want a committment, fine then maybe i will just put my needs first then.
they call or come over when it's convenient for them, fine, i will be far less available when they do come around and put myself first AND not feel guilty. i'm not a priority to them, for sure they're not a priority for me.
no more putting their feelings, wants and desires first because they never have put mine first.
they don't care if they hurt us or break our hearts so why should we care about their every little feeling.
skatergirl 08-24-2006, 04:02 AM ditto on "his loss" honey....
Wait for the good one now...he's on his way...
thanks doll...you know i really believe you!! thanks so much!
kindanice 08-24-2006, 09:23 AM Glad you got HIM weeded outta the garden...:)
BBWLady 08-24-2006, 09:53 AM To look at the bright side, at least he pulled his disappearing act sooner rather than later! I don't suppose that's much help right now, though :(
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freespirit 08-24-2006, 05:08 PM What she said Skates....at least you saw his true colours....which obviously he didn't feel he had to hide...as we say...what a wanker.....and you have every right to be angry....it hurts....save your best for those that are worth it hon....and yep be more assertive about what you want and need.....its all about you!!!!
Magnetar 08-24-2006, 06:40 PM That's too bad.
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