Relationship with Older little person

I am thinking about getting in a relationship with a 53 year old women, I am 28, who is a little person. I am actually little too around 5'4".

I met her online and I really like her. She is so sweet to me and easy to talk to. I really like her. She doesn't seem to have a problem opening up to me. We talked over the phone and I am not afraid to tell her how I am feeling.

It really doesn't bother me that she is little, I am small too and I would like to have a girlfriend who is smaller then me. I feel I can identify with her, I have always thought of myself as a hobbit, like Frodo baggins, even though I am just short.

I am starting to like her better then a girl my age that is 5'9" that I was dating. It is so hard finding girls a lot shorter then me. I feel more masculine around a women that is shorter then me. She has a Texas accent and a great laugh and she seems so affectionate over the phone. I would love to hold a little women like that. She is so small and delicate and I like that.

Hi Mathew. I read that you met her online, is she too far away from you? Perhaps you two should meet and see how you get along in person. I used to be in a LDR myself and now we are living together here.

If you ever feel you are short and if you have a few dollars, come to my country where I, at 5-5, am considered tall. Plenty people shorter than you here. :yes:

Good luck with your relationship, and some advice, try to focus more on her other qualities apart from her size. I am sure she will appreciate that you like her as a whole person, not just the fact that she is little.

Well,
if you have a chance, take it. You never know, this could be it.


If you both feel good about it, why not try it?

i think that is great you have found someone that you feel that connection with. i have had a few friends meet online and now have great long term relationships. i think it sounds like something that would be worth exploring if it makes you happy

My kids' Lolo (grandpa) from the Philippines is 4'1" I think, and he's married to a woman who's 5'4" I think.

I'm short, too - 5'2". When I was younger, I used to always want to be with someone that was 6' or more (like my dad), and I probably wouldn't have even considered a shorter person, but the older I got, the more I looked at just the person and not the outside wrappings. Some of the most beautiful people I have known, men and women, were very short.

The other day, I had an interview in downtown San Francisco. I was early, so I took a seat outside on a bench in the sunshine for a while. A short ways down from me on the same bench was a strikingly handsome man. I had a hard time not staring at him and I was thinking that if I wasn't already madly in love with Nazi, I might have thought to start up a conversation with the guy. I noticed when he got up to walk away, he was probably as short as me or shorter.

Anyway... it sounds like you have identified the beauty within the woman you are considering, and that she is beautiful to you. So who cares what her size, or your size or her age or your age! I say go for it!

Matt, I say go for it. Have you two met in person? You should arrange a face-to-face if you two haven't met yet. Then see where it goes from there.