... Another Australian!

Hi All
Yup, another Australian here - but from the West Coast.
Like everyone else here I am SOOOOO glad I found this site as the OW/YM connection is still not seen as acceptable where I live - one of 'those' country towns.
I'm in a bit of a weird situation - been partnered with an OM [53] - both agree we are more friends than lovers now - for 18 years but have recently discovered a YM [28] of some considerable charms where we both get along together great. I've never even really looked at other men, always been a 'good' girl for 18 years, but there is something there... BUT ... I wouldn't cheat in a fit.
I have also worked out that I am not dead yet and so have re-started my social life - and am having a ball!!!!:D Unfortunately my OM has decided he is getting old and prefers the tv!
Hope to hear from anyone and everyone whilst I re-discover life and fun... and find a way to reverse my OM's thinking.

Probably anything goes here in San Francisco... but still, when I met my very young man (I'm 46, he's 20), I didn't know how old he was. I thought he was much older. When I learned his age, considering he'd already stated intentions of wanting to marry me, I freaked out for a while. It has been reading through this web site that has brought me to a comfortable (and happy!) place about the whole thing.

Anyway... welcome!