wen u 1st meet and feels really special...

well i have been gone from this site for sometime it feels like but im still here... i just recently met this ow... wow im shocked still i had such a good time... i have never smiled and laughed so much in my whole lifetime... well the funny thing is she is 20yrs to the same day older than me... basically saying we share a birthday.. im not really looking to date right now but something is telling me to go after this situation hard... what is that and at the same time i dont want to feel like a pest to her.... so im trying to stay level headed and give it time to adjust... like yesterday we made agreement we need to let things settle down that was broke quickly.... wen she tex me and ask me to call... i am just curious i need some ow view on these types of situations... im just really curious... i just went mind blank...

it is obvious that you like her and she totally likes you so go with the flow

well i have been gone from this site for sometime it feels like but im still here... i just recently met this ow... wow im shocked still i had such a good time... i have never smiled and laughed so much in my whole lifetime... well the funny thing is she is 20yrs to the same day older than me... basically saying we share a birthday.. im not really looking to date right now but something is telling me to go after this situation hard... what is that and at the same time i dont want to feel like a pest to her.... so im trying to stay level headed and give it time to adjust... like yesterday we made agreement we need to let things settle down that was broke quickly.... wen she tex me and ask me to call... i am just curious i need some ow view on these types of situations... im just really curious... i just went mind blank...



Although I can't give you OW perspective, I'm a YM myself, I say if it feels right, please do not miss this occasion.

The reason we sometimes hesitate is because deep inside, we have a fear : IT COULD ACTUALLY WORK!!!!

Call her you fool! Sheesh! :)

Although I can't give you OW perspective, I'm a YM myself, I say if it feels right, please do not miss this occasion.

The reason we sometimes hesitate is because deep inside, we have a fear : IT COULD ACTUALLY WORK!!!!

Great advice, sylverspice! Have you taken it yet yourself? I hope you have, and that things are going great for you.

saturday night she we were talking and she was wanting me to come to la but i couldnt... b.c i had to work sunday night... so the idea came up about me giving her a buddy pass to fly into san diego.... so i did and she flew down sunday morning she just left on the 3oclock lax flight... wow i had such a good time.... its funny how i dont believe i have ever felt chemistry work as it does with her... i cant speak for her but she has said josh its something about u.... so vibes are here with us just we arent trying to rush and enjoy every moment... ive been telling her about this site.... thanks yall so who knows she might join soon...:bgrin2: :D

saturday night she we were talking and she was wanting me to come to la but i couldnt... b.c i had to work sunday night... so the idea came up about me giving her a buddy pass to fly into san diego.... so i did and she flew down sunday morning she just left on the 3oclock lax flight... wow i had such a good time.... its funny how i dont believe i have ever felt chemistry work as it does with her... i cant speak for her but she has said josh its something about u.... so vibes are here with us just we arent trying to rush and enjoy every moment... ive been telling her about this site.... thanks yall so who knows she might join soon...:bgrin2: :D


I met my ym on world of warcraft of all places we had sooooo much in common i was the one who was scared (22 years age difference) we finish each others thoughts think the same its truly amazing..i never laughed so hard in my life and i feel good...go for it hun...ya its scary but if your mature enough which i think you are..and you like her she likes you go for it...YES there are obsticles BUT those can be over come trust me been there done it with my ym..its worth it

keep us up to date and big hugs!

saturday night she we were talking and she was wanting me to come to la but i couldnt... b.c i had to work sunday night... so the idea came up about me giving her a buddy pass to fly into san diego.... so i did and she flew down sunday morning she just left on the 3oclock lax flight... wow i had such a good time.... its funny how i dont believe i have ever felt chemistry work as it does with her... i cant speak for her but she has said josh its something about u.... so vibes are here with us just we arent trying to rush and enjoy every moment... ive been telling her about this site.... thanks yall so who knows she might join soon...:bgrin2: :D

So what kind of things did the 2 of you get up to, in order for us to help you we need the "juice" to help you make the "punch".

we had great conversation and we went a few differ places around san diego... most important thing is that with this being our 2nd time meeting things are slowly coming into perspective.. i know i have to go to la soon for training so we might take a long drive from there or fly somewhere nice... i just really enjoy being with her.... i cant explain how great it feels i am beat tired being with her most of the day and we got up early and i worked tonight soo.. hmm i will keep things up to date with time....:yes:

I met my ym on world of warcraft of all places we had sooooo much in common i was the one who was scared (22 years age difference) we finish each others thoughts think the same its truly amazing..i never laughed so hard in my life and i feel good...go for it hun...ya its scary but if your mature enough which i think you are..and you like her she likes you go for it...YES there are obsticles BUT those can be over come trust me been there done it with my ym..its worth it

keep us up to date and big hugs!


thanks soo much i got to show her this.... this is really sweet and supportive...

Its really amazing you meet someone unexpected! Let see how far you can go?:yes:

Alexisara

Very sweet and I'm glad you guys got to spend some time together. :)

Keep us posted.

wanting to take things slow. My hb and I started out with that intention, but the chemistry was so amazing we couldn't help but go with it. I'm glad to hear that you too are spending time together. Go with it! You two sound like you're great together. :thumbsup_still:

wanting to take things slow. My hb and I started out with that intention, but the chemistry was so amazing we couldn't help but go with it. I'm glad to hear that you too are spending time together. Go with it! You two sound like you're great together. :thumbsup_still:

thanks for that we are planning to spend a lot of time together next weekend wen i come up to la for some kind of training and then we are going somewhere.... we dont know yet we are going to play that by ear.....

Hey man what's happening?

I think I can fully relate to your situation, but not the long distance set up.
Let me share my love story quickly to give you a place and time of where I am at:

Last September 2006 at my club, I started to notice this woman....October I started to chat her up a little...November we were both talking more. She only comes into the gym on the weekends, because during the week she works out at her home gym...she is an ex personal trainer for years, and I am a bodybuilder since I am 18--now 31.
During December 2006 I was lost in her, she knew about it because I had dropped the bomb discreetly several times. If you ever saw a deer in front of oncoming car lights, you would know her astonished face, when she started sensing that I was into her...she is 48 I am 31.
During all this time, I kept questioning myself for several reaons ( I have been with 3 older woman in long relationships since I am 24, so this OW thing is very consistent for me_)
I kept questioning the timing most of all, all because was we speak I am making some pretty big career turns, that would make a relationship hard to maintain. Once I am done my schooling and all relevant work involved that will help me elope into my final career, then by the age of 35 I will be on top of the world financially speaking.
I kept saying to myself that i was not ready to engage into a love relationship. I knew then that with HER< I did not want to have just a fling, or quick thing. I mean this gal is from heavens above!!!

After December, WE both decided to open the year together and a week into January we started dating and made the commitement to only see one anther....all in all, now 4 months later, I (just like she is) am in a no way back land.....WE both are managing to work together, and give it the world.
We both are extremely lucky to have met and we share an immense world of similarities.
My first OW relationship was when I was 24 and this lasted for 4 years--she was 39, she was a very succesfull business woman, with whom I could never fall in true love with..I ended it, we still talk from time to time, but she hurts a lot still.
My 2nd OW relationship was at my old gym, i met this psychologist I was 28-29 she was 44. We lasted around 1 year until she started to want to accept a baby from me....this unfortunately did not fit in too good, and we ended in bad terms.
And this is my 3rd OW relationship. The bes thing in my life and the best investment I will ever make in my entire life.

Yes, I am not ready. And yes we are different--she has been divorced for 8 years and has two little ones. One is 18 and at university and the little guy, who I met -3 times at the gym when she brings him over is 15 years of age.
This is my first time dating a divorced female and very first time with one that has children. I respect her and if I can say one of the best things I have done in my years in regards to a woman:

I have asked her to always take control and mold me. I was in the wild for so long, with no direction whatsoever, now all of the suddent, I met my owner :bgrin2: :yes: The learning curve has been tremendous for us both.
We email, talk on the phone EACH AND EVER DAY!! I drop by her work to see her for lunch from time to time, probably once or twice per week.
She cannot come into my work place unfortunately, I work in restricted banking grounds where visitors do not exist.

For now go with the flow and see where it takes you...sorry for the long post.


Attractive31

i can really say thanks.... i just cant wait until next weekend i miss her soo much i was kinda wanting to make a suprise run to see her monday and i might still do it just to have lunch... thanks a lot attractive31 you couldnt have said it better.....

she loves reading the blogs we both say thank u for yalls support.... lol im southern and she is flipina so wat can we say nothing... hehe

i just put pics of us on my photo gallery thingy... hope yall enjoy let me hear comments

Its really amazing you meet someone unexpected! Let see how far you can go?:yes:

Alexisara

is this ara herself