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I'm glad I found this forum because I was beginning to think there was something seriously wrong with me. I have found myself drawn to YM and it was my embarrassing secret. I knew people would think I was a sicko if they found out. I am 53 (God what a relief to be honest) I am still alive world!! On forums or chat rooms the guys go for me like crazy. The trouble is they are so young but they love talking to me and spending time with me. I just can't tell them my age. Most of them would have a meltdown. Obviously I need to go where I will be accepted for who I am. But where??? Yes this place is an excellent start but I'm looking for someone and most of the people here seem to be in a relationship.
I'd also like to thank you for letting me know I'm not some perverted old woman. My spirit is so young and full of life but this issue has been getting me down for sometime now and starting to make me feel old. Help!!!!

Welcome to AL! I am not particularly drawn to YM but somehow I ended up with one. Not here tho, in a political chatroom of all places! :tongue2:

Welcome! Same boat as Sheila... nothing particular about ym to me, but I love my husband, who just so happens to be younger. We met in There.com. Good Luck!

I wasnt drawn to anyone, my marriage was supposed to be monogamous (??) and suddenly this man 35 years my senior looked at me, sparks flew and 15 years later Im still married and still seeing him too (not to be recommended) but the point is - so long as your happy then within reason - stay happy! At 53 - your hardly past the post yet love! - Get those stillettos out and get out there - another 25 years - you can sweep 'em of their feet in ya powerised-wheelchair - but till then - enjoy yourself and dam the neighbours!

I love your posts everyone. Actually I really wasn't looking for the YM myself. They just seemed to like me and then I started liking their company. And then I started preferring their company. And then I found myself in this awkward position and didn't know what I was going to do about it. Out of desperation to find out what my problem was and how to fix it I googled older women and younger men. Hehe guess what I found? Today after discovering this forum and reading some posts , I walked with my head held high and contemplated my new found endless possibilities. You people my have just saved my sanity TY!!!!

Welcome to ageless.

I think a lot of us end up here because of that perverted feeling. I'm just thankful this place exists. :o

Hi!

Nothing to be worried about. My new girlfriend and I met in church. I'm 37 and she's 60. So far so good!:yes:

I'm glad I found this forum because I was beginning to think there was something seriously wrong with me. I have found myself drawn to YM and it was my embarrassing secret. I knew people would think I was a sicko if they found out. I am 53 (God what a relief to be honest) I am still alive world!! On forums or chat rooms the guys go for me like crazy. The trouble is they are so young but they love talking to me and spending time with me. I just can't tell them my age. Most of them would have a meltdown. Obviously I need to go where I will be accepted for who I am. But where??? Yes this place is an excellent start but I'm looking for someone and most of the people here seem to be in a relationship.
I'd also like to thank you for letting me know I'm not some perverted old woman. My spirit is so young and full of life but this issue has been getting me down for sometime now and starting to make me feel old. Help!!!!

This is so familiar to me. I'm 36 and wherever I go online I usually end up talking to guys from 17 upwards and being really good friends with them, but worried to tell them my age for fear of them running off screaming and thinking I am some sort of stalker freak. I met my YM online probably about 18 months ago, and we've been dating for the last 6 months. It is really nice to just say out loud how old I am on here.

You sound like really effervescent and full of life! I hope you find the person you are looking for and I look forward to keeping in touch :bighug:

awwww Stumbelina that was so sweet of you. I'm glad for your luck in finding your YM and thanks for the compliment. You people are great and I so enjoy reading your posts. I see a great deal of compassion and humor here. It's just what the doctor ordered :bunny_4: