andrewross21 02-18-2003, 08:53 AM Hi, I am 22, and I am looking for someone I can chat with on life, love, or anything else. I've never had a girlfriend, in fact, I've never even kissed a girl, despite my age. So I'm no expert on relationships, and think I need a lot of adivce about women, I don't really know where to start with them. I'm not sure if having a totally clean slate is a good thing or not. I don't go to bars either, I don't drink either. I guess I'm more of a dud than a dude.
About myself. I live in the UK, and the highlight of my week is washing dishes and cooking meals on a Saturday evening.
This job (if you can call it that) allows me to spend the rest of the time studying for my law degree. I am really looking forward to representing people, it's something I really want to do.
When I am not studying or working, I like to read English literature, history, and science. On Sundays I go to church, so I guess that means I am not very cool by most people's standards.
Tall, broad shouldered, muscular, athletic, I'm NOT. I'm only 5'9, and I am quite skinny, with pale skin. I only weigh 56kg, so I am probably lighter than most women, and most women are probably stronger too. Because of this, I don't like going to the beach or to a gym, I feel so stupid and pathetic.
I guess I'm not most womens' dream man, but I hope my honesty counts for something.
kittykat 02-18-2003, 08:57 AM welcome, andrew! you sound like a wonderful guy to me ~ educated, honest, and sober! :D i don't think every woman on the planet is looking for a musclebound man, including myself, so don't be so hard on yourself! glad you posted your welcome.
>^..^<
Princessdy 03-01-2003, 10:41 AM I second that opinion Andrew ... Please, don't be so down on yourself ... I'm certain you have lots to offer a lady ...
Join right in and ... welcome :)
Princessdy
southerngal 03-01-2003, 12:32 PM Hey Andrew -
Havent seen you around in awhile!! How's school going? I wondered what happened to you.
Like KK and Dyan said, dont be so hard on yourself !!!!! I'll let ya in on a little secret - alot of older women want nice guys (shhhhhhhhh) ;)
Welcome back
Southerngal
MidniteRayne 03-01-2003, 02:46 PM As for the paleness if it bothers you so much, and you don't wanna beach it, try a suntan bed, or self tanning lotions, as for build, if it fits you and your happy with it, then so be it.
Like MEN,,,,,,woman like all different types of men, depending on the woman, and I'm sure there is plenty that will find you more than attractive.
As for the other few things, Find an agressive woman that would get the ball rolling....*laughs*
where? Hmmmm one can normally tell who is more agressive than the none aggressive ones. and even if it's just for SSSSSexxx.....u and she....well so be it too,
least u get your one foot in?
Savannah 03-01-2003, 08:40 PM If it's any consolation, when I was 19 I fell in love with (and later married) a man who was 6' 1" and 135 lbs soaking wet -- you could count his ribs! His appearance had nothing to do with my feelings for him, nor with our subsequent divorce.
Being a non-drinker sure doesn't make you a dud; in fact, that's the only sort of man I'd ever consider a relationship with.
You cook? AND wash dishes?? OMG, you're approaching perfection, in my book!
Trust me: some woman is going to be very lucky to catch you some day. :D
ionedt 03-02-2003, 09:35 AM Andy,
You sound like an exceptional human being but with no confodence. If you lack anything it is this. Most people if they are serious about who they want to spend time with including sex. It is someone that they love. And how you love someone is because of teir heart. My sin is 21 and is 5,9", and weighs 130lbs. He used to be like you. Then he got confidence went to the beach or tanning bed start ther first if you want. But anyway, he is in his second realationship and this one is very serious they have been together 6 months. I think what attracted women to him is his willingness to act like who he is. Before he was uptight and not relaxing everything had to be perfect. always polite never saying anything off color. Now he opens up and is who he is he is very funny sometimes doesn't shave like most men do at times. So just loosen up and you will find your dream. work on doing things your afraid of then it becomes easier. I told my son and my brother something that may help treat girls like your sister being just yourself but with romance added in. WE don,t have a sister in our family but you get the picture. Anyway, good luck don't worry so much it'll all turn out ok.;)
Gypsyheart 03-02-2003, 10:36 AM where? Hmmmm one can normally tell who is more agressive than the none aggressive ones. and even if it's just for SSSSSexxx.....u and she....well so be it too,
least u get your one foot in?
Or some other body part!! ((smirk))
Sorry, couldn't pass that one up..... it was too easy! hehe
andrewross21 03-05-2003, 04:50 AM Ladies, please don't fight with each other
Surely we can all take a joke ?:)
Gypsyheart 03-05-2003, 06:53 AM Thank you understanding hun,
That was all that was intended. Guess I just in a mood that day.
You seem like a sweetheart. Truth and honesty count for everything...... don't forget that!
BTW, going to church and being a "good person" doesn't make you a "dud". First thing you need to do, is stop putting yourself down! ;) Have faith that your higher power is just waiting to introduce you to that "special someone".
(hug)
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