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Would like the men to ;)answer this question with all honesty. I am 56 and look quite younger. I am interested in men 40 t0 40+. Do you men only think I want younger men for sex? That is not my intention. What are your intentions?

Italiana,

I found your thread in the personal ad queue. But, it doesn't read to me like a personal ad, so I moved it here to the OW/YM Relationship Support forum. If you intended it to be an ad, let me know and I'll move it back for you.

Otherwise, it's here in this section so the YM can answer your questions about intentions towards OW.

Whiterose,
Moderator

Hi italana1,

As a YM,I'll try to answer your question.If I read it correctly,you were asking if OW just want a YM for just $ex?

For me,Im looking for a OW,to start out a friend.Then later on become her best friend as I would like her to do the same.Someone to get to know.as I would her.Someone to share laughs and a few tears along the way.Someone who like to go to dinner with,and just to hang out with,with no pressure.

Hope I was able to answer your question correcly.


Nichael

I'm in search of women first to date and have fun together. Then, I'd like to move to an exclusive relationship and ultimately marriage. I've gravitated toward older women because I find that in general, I have more in common with them, in terms of outlook and common interests, than I do with women around my age or younger.

I'm not into fads, or pop culture, or late nights at the clubs, etc. I don't have television, preferring to spend my solo time reading. I'm into fine dining and wine, the arts, antiques, museums. Instead of a night club hopping, I'd rather dine together with a charming woman and then go to a play/concert/opera etc.

Would like the men to ;)answer this question with all honesty. I am 56 and look quite younger. I am interested in men 40 t0 40+. Do you men only think I want younger men for sex? That is not my intention. What are your intentions?

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No, we've been together for 3+ years now and are married.

:)

I'm in search of women first to date and have fun together. Then, I'd like to move to an exclusive relationship and ultimately marriage. I've gravitated toward older women because I find that in general, I have more in common with them, in terms of outlook and common interests, than I do with women around my age or younger.

I'm not into fads, or pop culture, or late nights at the clubs, etc. I don't have television, preferring to spend my solo time reading. I'm into fine dining and wine, the arts, antiques, museums. Instead of a night club hopping, I'd rather dine together with a charming woman and then go to a play/concert/opera etc.

You're perfect in every way.....but I do love TV. Not everything but certain things..... PBS, HGTV, the Food Network, news channels.....and some network programs....

You're perfect in every way.....but I do love TV. Not everything but certain things..... PBS, HGTV, the Food Network, news channels.....and some network programs....

Sounds like pretty highbrow TV habits.:) If I had a set I'd mostly watch PBS, CNN, Discovery Channel and Animal Planet.

Sounds like pretty highbrow TV habits.:) If I had a set I'd mostly watch PBS, CNN, Discovery Channel and Animal Planet.

Yes, I watch those too. I'm a news junkie so I watch the cable news channels. I find it very interesting the way the different channels "spin" the news politically. I like to listen to different sides and come to my own conclusions.

I'll admit I'm a geek. I watched the Watergate Hearings (I even know the date of the break-in....June 17, 1972....it was the day I got married....not a day that bode well for me OR Nixon....lol). I watched the Iran-Contra hearings, the Clinton impeachments, and various things on C-Span. Oh, also every political convention since before I was old enough to vote.

Sorry....I didn't mean to hijack the thread....

Well I was not in search of anyone when My ym came along..we had lots in common and fell in love plain and simple now we are engaged:)

I am not a guy just an OW in a relationship with a significantly younger YM. I think that a man's perception of you would be determined by the way you relate to him.

Hi I hope this helps. I am very involved with an older women. She is just a 7 years but still older. I find this women wonderful to be with or to talk with. She is of the older culture ,and I find this stimulating. We have felt a feeling for each other like we have not felt for another. The thing is like with my better half is that we know our feelings for each other. By the way we are also a LDR to. I am 45. We find our feelings for each other to not be sexual. Sure it is a part of our relationship but not it completly. The things I have found in this relationship is new to me, but exciting just the same. we talk about things wrather it be the waether or the news. The news today is her daughter is starting a new life at berkley. she wants to be a sergen, and I will back her up as far as it takes for her to get there. I plan on moving to this wonderful womens home soon as my hand heals from an on the job enjury to help her get her home fixed up to sell. Then we plan on buying another where we want to live. I have a 12 year old in this same town I live, but we plan on living close enough to drive, and spend the same weekends with her. Our relationship is purley love, and care for the other, but like any other the intimate part is very important also. She has told me that her sexual drive is becoming stronger, and that she is learning new things in love. I hope this helps your situation, and this can go forward in love, and life.

Would like the men to ;)answer this question with all honesty. I am 56 and look quite younger. I am interested in men 40 t0 40+. Do you men only think I want younger men for sex? That is not my intention. What are your intentions?

i'm 22....

but i wouldn't think that. Are you? I don't have a particular age range I target. It just happens the girl I met is in her late twenties, I think shes gorgeous, I like being around her, we get along, we have alot in common, etc....That's all I want. The girls I develop a dating vibe with, its never just strictly about sex.

It seems like an odd question for you to ask to be honest? What would make you think that.

look at any realtionship and then take out the age difference. that is your answer.

Would like the men to ;)answer this question with all honesty. I am 56 and look quite younger. I am interested in men 40 t0 40+. Do you men only think I want younger men for sex? That is not my intention. What are your intentions?