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A story everyone should read

Buttercup53
07-16-2007, 09:53 AM
I would like to share this true story which I found online, giving hope for many members on this forum including myself, when they thought they were losing it.

The bottom line of this story is that we need to stop analyzing our relationships and just allow ourselves to trust our guts, and inner feelings.

Here goes, . . .Enjoy !

Calls from a Future Soul Mate
by Keely


One day in my early teens, I was walking up my family's driveway after retrieving the mail when I heard someone call my name, Keely! I swiftly turned around to answer the call, and to my surprise, there was no one there. Thinking that my brother was playing a game of chase, I immediately ran around the side yard to the back yard. I found no one, so I ran to my brother's room quickly in order to catch him. There he was resting quietly on his bed, reading a magazine. I studied his chest, but saw no heavy breathing to prove that he had just been running away from me. I was puzzled. I thought about the voice I'd heard, which was deep and assertive, but as I couldn't figure it out, I gave up after a while.

Some weeks later, I heard the same exact call of my name, Keely! Again I turned to answer and found no one there. I compared what I had heard this time and the first time, and concluded that they were the same voice, but I still couldn't figure out who or what was calling my name.

Over the years, this continued to happen often in different places and at different times. There didn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to the timing, so I never knew when I'd hear it again. I became use to it and looked forward to this phenomenon. Of course, I told no one.

I grew up, and in my 20's I became friends with a classmate at community college. I felt comfortable enough to ask him what he thought of the voice I was hearing, and he suggested that perhaps someone from a past life was calling to me, or someone I'm meant to meet in this life was trying to connect. I had heard of past lives before, but never looked into the subject. I continued to hear the voice at random times throughout my life.

In 1992, I was 32 years old when I met a young man who was more than 12 years younger than me. As he was only 20, I thought he was much too young for me, even though he seemed old beyond his years. Since we got along great and really enjoyed each other, I figured this may be a nice summer fling, then back to reality.

Then one day about three weeks into our relationship, I was folding laundry in the living area of my small studio apartment while Keith was in the kitchen not more than 18 feet away. He came rushing up to me, agitated that I wasn't answering his call to me from such a short distance away. He said I called to you three times, how can you not hear me?

I froze, then quickly apologized and said I must have been deep in thought. The truth was that I had just heard that voice again in my head three times, and thought nothing of it since I had heard it so many times before over the last 20 years. I froze because I had just realized that Keith's voice was the voice that I had been hearing all those years! I analyzed it and tried hard to dismiss this idea, but I knew deep down inside that I had found the owner of the voice.

It's now 15 years later, and we're still together. In fact, we have a bond that is stronger than anything else I've ever known. Keith reconnected me to God, and together we have learned so much through Kajama. We now know we were meant to meet up and live our lives together again, for what seems to be our fifth life together.

By the way, I thought back to when I first heard the voice, and I figured I was about 12 or 13 years old. This was just around the time that Keith was born into his new life on earth. I find it amazing that somehow, after 20 years, we were able to find each other. I'm thankful that Spirit guided us to finally meet.

:angel2:

Lovaholic
07-16-2007, 10:12 AM
What a neat story. I totally believe in all that. I think everyone we meet in our lives have a purpose & are sent to us for a reason.

str8dyme25
07-16-2007, 11:58 AM
Lova took the words right out my mouth. :D Thanks for sharing!

Rozie
07-16-2007, 12:26 PM
That's a lovely story! Thanks for sharing.

irparis
07-16-2007, 12:48 PM
Great story...it reminds me of a story that an old bishop's wife once told me about her and her husband and the decision she had to make in marrying him. He was younger than her by like 12 years and shall we say more worldly than he was. And they dated like 3 months before they got married but she thought long and hard about marrying someone so young, with no life experience and less sophisticated then she was.

She said she had a dream where she was in a field of flowers and she was something like 6 years old running towards another child, who was running towards her who was about the same age and height as she (her husband is shorter han her) and they hugged so close and fiercely but she was saying goodbye, because of the age difference she was to be born first. This was when she realized that she was in a pre-life existent awaiting her turn to come to earth and leaving what was her fav playmate and best friend, but that the little boy told her that they will meet again and live a life without temporal blessings (which she realize he meant children, because they never could have any), but with be bless with eternal happiness and to have faith that it will come to pass. And then he was gone, but not before she took a good look at his face...once she woke up from that dream, she called her future mother-in-law to send her pics of her son when he was like 5/6, and got the shock of her life to find the same little boy's face staring back at her.

They married and have been married for something like 20 years now. It just made our day. I haven't spoken to them in like years, but other friends have run into them and they are still together.

So anything is possible if we just accept it.

Paris

Nandara
07-16-2007, 04:39 PM
I have also strongly believed in this kind of thing, since I read the book, "You were born again to be together" over 25 years ago. It just makes sense to me.

Nandara

Kristin
07-16-2007, 06:13 PM
Hmmm... sweet story, but I dunno if I want to believe in it, because I never heard Jeremy calling to me when I was 13! :( :p

Then again, we seem like two halves of the same soul so much of the time. We think SO alike and often say exactly what the other was thinking - and this was from day one. And the other day, as he was walking out of the store and as I waited in the car watching him, I suddenly thought, "If I were a guy, that is EXACTLY how I be!"

Weird, huh?

Sometimes he's so like me that I realize that I annoy myself sometimes! LOL! :p;)

whiterose
07-17-2007, 05:25 AM
What a lovely story. :)

When I first met Remi in person, there was a very strong sense that we had somehow been together before. For example, he has a very unique walk. He is tall, holds his shoulders high, and his long legs stretch out before him. It's sooo difficult to describe. But, when I first saw him walk, I watched him walk and thought to myself that it all seemed so familiar to me. It's a very interesting phenomena.

Chamaeleon
07-17-2007, 10:39 AM
Wow i cried as it described what has happened with Kai and I
I use to have dreams about us before I met him. Dreams of a redheaded man walking on the beach laughing you name it. Describing things I never had seen.
I even dreamt of a painting of a man in black red and white. Well he shows me this picture he painted and I could not stop crying and shaking SO i showed it to him what I dreamt. I thought he was going to fall over. When he came here I let him read my dream journals. He said nothing just cried. this all explained the HUGe deja vu we had together as well.

Great story..omg thank you for sharing!!

A Sen
07-17-2007, 11:31 AM
Well it only reflects the spiritual truths about love. Time is a relative thing, there is nothing called time in ethers where our souls reside. And true love for another soul is always taken care of by God, it need not be love between couples but any other loving relationship. Although soul level love is usually found between couples. Yes, i had seen my ex gf in my dreams before meeting her. I was startled and loved her soul a lot. Sometimes even being at a distance I could feel her pain, once she hurt her knees badly and I could feel it at the very same moment!!! its like a bonding where two souls has become one. Needless to say that when I suffered a heartbreak when she left me, I had nearly had an heart attack. Well still I am suffering from cardiac problems bcz of pure love.

leejo
07-17-2007, 12:58 PM
I've always believed that everything happens for a reason whether we like it or not, we understand it later in the end. My first love was 3 yrs younger than me. He was 17 and I was 20. He lied and said that he was in "college" when we met that summer. He was actually about to begin his senior year in high school. I got pregnant, he was scared and closed all connections with me. I had a baby girl and paternity was established. He and I slowly began parenting together. We both felt the same strong connection with each other as when we first met. We got back together, I got pregnant again and had another baby girl. He and I had our share of troubles but knew without a doubt we wanted to be together. We were to be married in July of '93. He died in a motorcycle wreck on month before. It was devasting! He had a peach rose bush that he loved. He babied it all the time. He told me that if it bloomed its first rose on our wedding day, he was going to wear it because peach was one of our colors. On July 24th, the day of our wedding, that rose bush had its first bud bloom. I knew it was a message from him. Even though he is not physically here for me and his daughters, I know he is because he finds ways to show me.

Love is an amazing and precious gift to give and receive. If you have that feeling that you just know it feels right and the two of you have an amazing connection, don't let anyone take it away. Had I listened to all the disapproval from my family and friends for my relationship with him I would have regretted listening to them for the rest of my life. He, our daughters and I had the chance to be together and have memories that will last forever. Live life with no regrets!

My ym and I have that huge attraction and connection. Its nothing to do with the excitement of a new relationship. I can suddenly get this feeling to go check my cell phone and it never fails......he just sent me a text, or I get it as I'm picking up the phone. It's like that with us for many things.

Stick with what your heart and soul tells you. Shut out the garbage anyone else tries to shove inside. They obviously haven't felt what you are feeling. Live Life With NO :no: Regrets!:yes:

A Sen
07-17-2007, 03:13 PM
Thanks for sharing your experiences :) Love is truly divine.

miu
07-17-2007, 03:46 PM
I'm jealous, I didn't hear my YM's voice calling to me before we met. But... at the time we started our online friendship, we each had a beloved older dog in our lives. About the time we met in person to take that fateful first wonderful roadtrip, our dogs passed away within about two months of each other. And their passing made us very sad and emotional softened us to be more receptive to each others support and friendship, and encouraged us to seize this rare opportunity for love. We were able to travel much easier and longer without having the dogs with us. And it made it easier for my YM to leave his mom's house. The next summer, we picked out a dog together from one shelter (and I added two more), and as our "kids", they brought us further together.


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