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New Rules For Debate Forum

Chatterbox
08-20-2007, 06:22 PM
“Hello, and a good evening to you all! Welcome to tonight’s game, as the Central High School Red Elephants take on the Blue Burros of Northside High School. Folks, this rivalry has been building up all season long, and we are anticipating an action packed contest on the gridiron here tonight!”

As an analogy, the above describes the vast majority of politically and socially themed threads here in the Debate Forum. Two “teams”…each intellectually prepared for the contest and wearing proper equipment (in the form of data in support of their position)…"doing battle" in an environment constructed to reward the team (or individual) that is best-prepared and puts forth the best overall effort. And...as anyone who has ever “put on the pads” can attest (having heard their coaches say it thousands of times), “if you aren’t sweating (or bleeding), you’re not in the game”.

As with football, a good debate ideally should be conducted with respect and sportsmanship toward your opponent, but there is no getting around the fact that it can get a bit rough at times. "Big hits", having your feet taken out from underneath you, and being “blind-sided” are all just part of the game. From its inception, the Debate Forum was meant to be “the field”; a place where Agelesslove members could present their positions on passionate, important issues, and where those positions could be discussed, examined, dissected, and evaluated objectively -- sans the protection of any "emotional covering" -- by other members. And in the end, if during such examination some positions are weighed, measured, and found wanting, …well, that’s why we keep score, right? Basically, bring your "A" game every time you post here and hope that it’s good enough. If it’s not, accept defeat graciously and go work on your game.

Why all this theater, you ask? To get to this:

Debate will now be a controlled access forum. To participate in the Debate Forum, members must obtain exclusive permission to do so from Jo-admin (granted upon request submitted via PM), and such permission will only be granted to members who understand and acknowledge that they will comply the following Debate Forum rules:

1. Beginning immediately, the Ageless staff will moderate ONLY issues of profanity, pornography, threats of any kind to person or property, and spam here in Debate. Do not report posts in the Debate Forum for any other reason. While we still encourage common sense and respectfulness here, participation in the Debate forum is now strictly “at your own risk”.

2. As with the other Agelesslove forums, personal issues that may develop between two members should be handled via PM by the members involved, and the “ignore” feature should be used when such problems cannot be resolved. However, regarding personal issues stemming from discussions here in Debate, a stricter policy will apply. Agelesslove moderators will not become involved in any such issues unless/until the members involved have shown evidence of attempts to work their problems out themselves via PM, and even then only under extraordinary circumstances. “Whining” to us after-the-fact about what so-and-so said to you or how they said it will result in the loss of your Debate Forum access privileges.

3. WHIDSID! (What Happens In Debate Stays In Debate!) There is no way to over-emphasize this! Anytime the mod staff finds ANY post in which a disagreement or conflict from Debate has spilled out into another forum or section of Ageless, the member posting it will receive a temporary two-week ban not only from the Debate Forum, but from the entire Agelesslove.com site, as well as a mandatory “2nd level” warning.* A second such offense will result in the member being permanently banned from the Debate Forum, an extended ban from the entire site (length to be determined by the site administrator), and a mandatory 3rd level warning.* This is definitely a “zero tolerance” issue folks; if you really want to be fast-tracked out of Ageless, then test us on this one.

And finally, a word to those members who aren’t quite ready to “suit up”…

The admin and mod staff realize that some members who have posted in the Debate Forum in the past will be uncomfortable with these changes, and we’d like reassure those members that the Discussion & Differing Views Forum (as well as all other areas of Agelesslove.com besides the Debate Forum) will remain fully moderated. Those members who prefer discussing issues (even if they are ones also under discussion in a Debate Forum thread) in a less-aggressive environment are encouraged to do so there.


* For those members who might be unaware of the mod staff's warning system, Agelesslove members who -- after being reminded of them (usually more than once) -- continue to show a pattern of disregard for the site's rules are issued a 1st level warning. A 2nd level warning is issued upon their next rules violation, along with a notice that if continued, such behavior could place their Agelesslove.com membership in jeopardy. Finally, if the violations persist, the member is issued a 3rd level warning and informed that the next such violation of site rules will result in he or she being permanently banned from Agelesslove.com.

eponavet
08-20-2007, 06:23 PM
but how do we get access to the debate section? :(

Chatterbox
08-20-2007, 06:25 PM
but how do we get access to the debate section? :(

You have to send a private message to Jo-Admin. She's cooking supper now, so it will be a few hours before she can sign you up OR it may not be until tomorrow.

RobsGirl
08-20-2007, 06:42 PM
So Chatt, with these new and improved rules in place can I tell ya to bite me whilst we debate??!!:bgrin2:

Chatterbox
08-20-2007, 06:44 PM
So Chatt, with these new and improved rules in place can I tell ya to bite me whilst we debate??!!:bgrin2:



Hmmmmmmmm .....

That's a tough one ....


Hmmmmmmm ......

I assume you can, but I am also free to actually bite you!

:yes:

:p

RobsGirl
08-20-2007, 06:50 PM
Hmmm...perhaps we shall have to rethink that phraseology!! :D

Rozie
08-20-2007, 08:50 PM
So, in the spirit of healthy debate we could say "Jane, you ignorant misguided ****?" :D

LadyInWaiting
08-20-2007, 08:59 PM
As long as you don't whine about it . :D

grumpysgirl
08-20-2007, 08:59 PM
Can I say jerk!! PLEASE!!!!!!!! just once??? *jumps up and down* I won't whine about it! I swear..If you wont let me I AM TELLING!

last1standing
08-20-2007, 09:00 PM
So, in the spirit of healthy debate we could say "Jane, you ignorant misguided ****?" :D

For several reasons, it's probably not the smartest thing you could do given the very real likelihood that "Jane" will immediately return fire...but no; we're not gonna mod you for it (so long as "****" isn't something that other members would consider profane.

Rozie
08-20-2007, 09:17 PM
Lol. I was making reference to the old SNL Point/Counterpoint skits. To which Jane would reply, "Dan, you sadistic, elitist, sexist, racist, anti-humanist pig!"

Belisama
08-20-2007, 09:23 PM
Yep, what last1standing said - it's all up there in the first post... no profanity, no threats (overt or covert), no porn and no spam. Ya buncha grotty little whiners are free to roam as long as you follow those rules.

Now don't you feel silly for complaining about not having a place to say whats you thinks? We were working on it alla time. :rolleyes:

freespirit
08-21-2007, 04:12 AM
Now don't you feel silly for complaining about not having a place to say whats you thinks? ....no but I do consider that a patronising comment

Belisama
08-21-2007, 07:49 AM
Well, if you do, that certainly wasn't my intention but if you'd like to discuss it in private, feel free to send me a PM.

freespirit
08-21-2007, 04:29 PM
some of us actually felt quite strongly about the things that were going on with attempts at debate. I dont think it is ok to say those concerns were "silly" when in fact the concerns were serious. I am actually really happy the forum rules were changed and now we can have some serious debating, there are some incredibly good debaters on this board, limited only by the previous set up.


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