ricanflava
01-01-2008, 07:14 PM
Im dating a girl half my age she is 24 and Im 48 we also live 3,000 miles apart
we have a 2 year old boy whom I love very much.. weve been dating for 4 years and this last year she decided to move back home and she started going to church with her sister and everything has changed.. her sister told her she cant marry me cuz Im divorced... and that im older than her.. she also has gone as far as to get members of her church to talk to my girl and convince her that she should not get married with me.. so we have been going back and forth with this for a year.. now this last christmas we were to get married and we went and got the marriage license and agreed to get married she even boxed all her belongings and bought a ticket to fly to my home state to get married.. then she tell me to buy a ticket come to her and when I get there she changed her mind and now does not want to get married. So what should I do keep persuing this.. and fight for custody of my son.. she has it now.. and pay child support and move on...she syas she loves me.. But she cant make up her mind... her family is there..
we have a 2 year old boy whom I love very much.. weve been dating for 4 years and this last year she decided to move back home and she started going to church with her sister and everything has changed.. her sister told her she cant marry me cuz Im divorced... and that im older than her.. she also has gone as far as to get members of her church to talk to my girl and convince her that she should not get married with me.. so we have been going back and forth with this for a year.. now this last christmas we were to get married and we went and got the marriage license and agreed to get married she even boxed all her belongings and bought a ticket to fly to my home state to get married.. then she tell me to buy a ticket come to her and when I get there she changed her mind and now does not want to get married. So what should I do keep persuing this.. and fight for custody of my son.. she has it now.. and pay child support and move on...she syas she loves me.. But she cant make up her mind... her family is there..