Advice needed from YW

I have two very sweet younger females who are friends that are flirting with me and Im not sure how to take it.
Is it a competition between them and how do you think that I should respond to each of them? I do favor one over the other a little. Ive been pretty much ignoring their flirting while being polite to each of them due to them being much younger than me and them being friends. I have my own ideas, but would appreciate some insight from some young women. :yes:

Well first of all, I'm not sure how young these girls are (I assume they are at least legal?). And I don't know the context of your relationship with them. How do you know them, where do you see them that they are both together etc etc. What kind of flirting? Is it just joking around making comments or is it more like touching, kisses, physical kind of flirting? If you gave some more information I'm sure I could give you a better opinion...

Yes to what GEL said. Are they friends? There are a lot of questions to be answered.

Of course their legal, dont be silly now. :tongue2:
I see both of them at social functions and I know their parents, lol.
It all started when the one started dressing up and going way out of her way to greet me, socialize, etc.
She gave me the "are you the one?" look. :eek:
It really took me back and then her friend seemed to pick right up on it and started the same thing with me and she seems much more competitive.
Whats funny is that the first ones mother is on to it and I caught both her and her mom at the store the other day and mom zoomed by me like a speeding locomotive when she seen me with daughter trailing behind as my "hello" faded into the emptyness and then turned to laughter. So I know what her mom thinks now.
My mom used to do the same thing for me when older women or her youmger friends would flirt with me.:tongue2:
I think my ignoring their light flirting is wearing on her and shes backing off a bit or mom had a chat with her.
The other is much more mature and suddle about her flirting. She is very hard to ignore, LoL.
Thanks for your comments.

Hmmm... I don't know what you should do. I don't think there's any harm in fun flirting, as long as that's all it is, and not leading either one of them on. Maybe they like ruffling your feathers or something, seeing if they can get a rise out of you, lol.

The mom probably does know... especially if the girl isn't just flirting and actually likes you, mom are are able to see those things before we even realize it ourselves, or my mom was able to! lol

If you like one (really like, not just think she's hot or whatever) then you should talk to her about it, or talk to both of them.

I've never been one to purposely compete with a friend over a man's attention b/c that's immature and if she expressed an interest 1st, I would back off... so I can't say for sure what's going on with these girls or what their motives are, but I'd try to find out if I was you. Unless you want to just flirt with both of them for fun like I said. But if you like one over the other and you want to pursue something than you should be honest about it sooner than later.

Yes, I think your right. :)

I do like one over the other, but Im reluctant to talk to her about it and cause tension between the two friends.
I may hold off to see just how serious she really is, because it may be a competitive thing.
Ive seen young men do it just for sport!
Thanks :)