hisgirl
03-27-2003, 10:48 AM
I am so excited to be here!!
I had been craving a place just like this as lately I had been feeling that no one understands what its like to love an older man.. So I feel so at home here. You are such brilliant and wonderful women, I have read just about everything on here - so heres my first post!
I am 24, and I am head over heels in love with my OM, he is 54.
I, like some of you probably, have always been attracted to and felt safer with a man who is older...its our maturity and class!
He is a lobbyist in DC so hes up there when congress is in, and I am here living in our house down south. I stay here in Fla because I am in college.
Anyhow, we are very very close and happy and I wanted to share some ways this man makes me feel like Jello all the time.
Last weekend we were in this great outdoor bar that was really busy (its spring break here in FL) - anyhow at one point I went to the ladies room and walking back to the table I was overcome with this feeling that I was so damn lucky to be walking back to his table, to be with him. Does that make sense? It was really powerful. When I got back, I put my hand on his and said I was so glad I was the girl he was with and that I got to walk back to his table.
I always tell him how much I love going out to dinner/lunch with him. Why? Because I cant get enough of him - and for me sitting across from him and staring at him is so so moving to me!! I have never felt so strong for someone and cant take him in enough.
Sometimes, okay alot of times, when he sleeps, I just sit up and stare at him, and wonder how I became so lucky for us to meet.
We always get stares, do you ladies? I have to be honest though - no uncomfortable stares, we are both quite put together and make a beautiful couple, but actually I think they stare because they see two people so happy that it is undeniable. Just the way we look at each other.
I felt so at home to come to this site and read that you sweethearts worry too about the day that they wont be there. That of course is not reason to not be together, it just makes me want him every day - as if Im stocking up.
Dont you think whats so beautiful about this type of relationship is that there is so much admiration on each part? He gives me safety, security, strength, confidence, so so much - yet I realize that I provide him so much - admiration, respect, a feeling of being honored to be with him.
I dont want to be graphic, but I mean after intimicies I get a little hand towel and you know, wipe his forehead and chest and neck, and I know no one has ever done that because as a joke he will run around the house and chase me with a towel doing it to me as a joke, so I know he is touched by it.
And when he comes home from golf, I want to wash his shoelaces. Just a little way to show him I am so behind him, his little helper.
When your walking behind your man, in a parking lot or something say to him "I am behind you 100%. " I did that and he ate it up.
I could go on and on ladies, and I will again, I just wanted to say god bless this site and all you beautiful warm hearted women. I think this is a place I would really like to visit often.
If emarcad80 is reading this, I believe thats her name, I just want to say after reading all your posts, you make it so clear how classy you are, you seem so maternal and loving, and it shows thru. I enjoy reading everyones posts!!
So great to meet you all,
Chrissy
If its okay to throw this into the mix, we are seriously seriously considering bringing a little one into the world. Has anyone out there with a 20-30 yr difference done this?
I had been craving a place just like this as lately I had been feeling that no one understands what its like to love an older man.. So I feel so at home here. You are such brilliant and wonderful women, I have read just about everything on here - so heres my first post!
I am 24, and I am head over heels in love with my OM, he is 54.
I, like some of you probably, have always been attracted to and felt safer with a man who is older...its our maturity and class!
He is a lobbyist in DC so hes up there when congress is in, and I am here living in our house down south. I stay here in Fla because I am in college.
Anyhow, we are very very close and happy and I wanted to share some ways this man makes me feel like Jello all the time.
Last weekend we were in this great outdoor bar that was really busy (its spring break here in FL) - anyhow at one point I went to the ladies room and walking back to the table I was overcome with this feeling that I was so damn lucky to be walking back to his table, to be with him. Does that make sense? It was really powerful. When I got back, I put my hand on his and said I was so glad I was the girl he was with and that I got to walk back to his table.
I always tell him how much I love going out to dinner/lunch with him. Why? Because I cant get enough of him - and for me sitting across from him and staring at him is so so moving to me!! I have never felt so strong for someone and cant take him in enough.
Sometimes, okay alot of times, when he sleeps, I just sit up and stare at him, and wonder how I became so lucky for us to meet.
We always get stares, do you ladies? I have to be honest though - no uncomfortable stares, we are both quite put together and make a beautiful couple, but actually I think they stare because they see two people so happy that it is undeniable. Just the way we look at each other.
I felt so at home to come to this site and read that you sweethearts worry too about the day that they wont be there. That of course is not reason to not be together, it just makes me want him every day - as if Im stocking up.
Dont you think whats so beautiful about this type of relationship is that there is so much admiration on each part? He gives me safety, security, strength, confidence, so so much - yet I realize that I provide him so much - admiration, respect, a feeling of being honored to be with him.
I dont want to be graphic, but I mean after intimicies I get a little hand towel and you know, wipe his forehead and chest and neck, and I know no one has ever done that because as a joke he will run around the house and chase me with a towel doing it to me as a joke, so I know he is touched by it.
And when he comes home from golf, I want to wash his shoelaces. Just a little way to show him I am so behind him, his little helper.
When your walking behind your man, in a parking lot or something say to him "I am behind you 100%. " I did that and he ate it up.
I could go on and on ladies, and I will again, I just wanted to say god bless this site and all you beautiful warm hearted women. I think this is a place I would really like to visit often.
If emarcad80 is reading this, I believe thats her name, I just want to say after reading all your posts, you make it so clear how classy you are, you seem so maternal and loving, and it shows thru. I enjoy reading everyones posts!!
So great to meet you all,
Chrissy
If its okay to throw this into the mix, we are seriously seriously considering bringing a little one into the world. Has anyone out there with a 20-30 yr difference done this?